I am 52 and have 2 grown children, 28 and 30. I am intelligent but can be a bit of an air head at times. When it counts, I am focused. My match would be successful, financially secure, independent, emotionally available and confident. A man who has his own interests but also wants to share time together, balanced with balanced ideas of what makes a relationship work. I believe attraction must be there in addition to having common beliefs and goals. Without physical attraction, it is difficult in the best of times. I am generally attracted to people who are lighthearted and fun. They tend to bring out the less serious side of me. I love the outdoors but am more RV than tent and more automobile than motorcycle.
Currently I split my time between Los Banos and Sacramento.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
The best first date is when the place you are at is closing and it felt like you just got there.