If I wanted a penpal I would write to an inmate with a life sentence.
If you have no intention on taking on the phone within the first few messages I tell you this "Go Fish".
I'm very laid back, I get enough drama at work and enjoy coming home to a peaceful house or going out for a little fun but I am in no way a party girl. I hate wearing makeup and usually have a chapstick in my pocket which is the extent I wear on a daily basis. I enjoy being spontaneous and often do thing at the drop of a hat. I like someone that can be sarcastic with me. Life's too short to always be serious. I want someone who i can be silly with and not worry about being judged. I'm not a drinker but will have a "froo froo" drink once in a while or wine with a bath but that's about it. My guilty pleasure is having dessert before dinner or for dinner for that matter. I like trying new food and I enjoy cooking together. I definitely make time for someone I'm interested in so if you find you're too busy to make time to get to know me please keep it moving!
I'm looking for a girlfriend who can be committed to both myself and my Husband. No "hookups", we're wanting a real/committed/long term/forever relationship. Most women don't stop to think of all the positives of being in a relationship with both a man and a woman such as 2xs the love, 2xs the companionship, 2xs the adventures. We're looking to find someone we can love just as much as we love each other. So if you can look at the big picture with us and say to yourself "Why haven't I done this sooner?" then please by all means, send me a msg and let's get to know each other!
Also be ready to picture verify and talk on the phone so I can weed out all the catfish. I don't want to waste anyone's time, so please don't waste mine.
Anything else you want to know just ask.
Thx for reading! :-)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Go out for coffee. Just something kick back so we can get to know each other better one step at a time.