Dess41: Strike while the iron is hot!
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Fairfield, California
47 year old Female, 5' 7" (170cm), Non-religious
Mixed Race, Taurus
Dess41 is actively seeking a relationship.
Bachelors Degree

08/19/2014 girl power! Celebrating her hubbies bday at our favorite dive bar in IB

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 6 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Odessa
Here's where I make myself seem like the perfect woman or "Goddess"! In truth, they don't exist. We are all human with very human one is perfect. With that said...a little about me. I'm a simple girl with simple needs. I'm not high maintenance when it comes to material things. I am very family oriented and spend as much time with them as time permits. On my days off I love to curl up with a good book or watch a movie...yep I'm a home body...what do you mean Prince Charming won't come knocking on my door?!?! So here I am...looking for my Prince Charming...yeah I know...good luck with that.
I currently work as an RN, so my days off are truly sacred...I'm really, really good at doing absolutely nothing on my days bed is my might think it's a waste of a beautiful day, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
My favorite books are The Alchemist, The Aleph, Love in the time of cholera,100 years of Solitude, anything by Isabelle Allende,The Pugilist at Rest, Anton Chekov...all of his short stories, Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain, and all the Harry Potter books...yeah that's right, it's my dirty little secret! My favorite movies are Godfather 1, Boondock Saints,The Departed, 300, Gigi,An American in Paris, Braveheart, Sandlot, Shooter and Act of Valor and Tombstone, Black Hawk get the picture. Best movie character: Hoot from Black Hawk Down. Most quotable movie: Tombstone...Doc Holliday is classic!
I love all sorts of music except heavy metal...can't do it! My current favorite artists are Black Keys, Adele, Goyte, Alex Clare,Amy Winehouse, Fall out Boy, Linkin Park,Slightly Stoopid,Jack Johnson, Dave Matthews,Red Hot Chili Peppers,Maroon5, Joss old school favs are Rolling Stones,Jimi Hendrix, CCR, Croce,Coltrane, Van Morrison, Muddy Waters and Bob Marley just to name a few.
My favorite TV shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Wilfred, The Boondocks,American Dad, Archer, Tosh.0,True Blood, Law and Order SVU, and NCIS.
Food...let's start with what I don't eat...beets. I love Italian,French, Thai, Indian,Spanish, Mexican and yes...even German cuisine...who woulda thunk it!
I love to travel, and plan on adding more stamps to my passport...would be nice to have a travel partner, but it's not obligatory...traveling alone is quite an adventure!
I'm not looking to pick out china patterns on the first date, so relax sweaty palms! And seriously...has anyone not heard the term "strike while the iron is hot"? It's not sexual by any means. SMDH. What I am looking for is someone who is laid back, smart/educated, emotionally you separated guys need not apply,great sense of humor and has the least amount of baggage...let's face it...if you're around my just might have some extra all depends on how big and messy your baggage is. Small carry on's are acceptable. If you have dark hair, and blue or grey are just as good. I may seem a bit picky,but you get what you settle for, and I refuse to settle.

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