So I really suck at this part. Just ask me if you want to know something. I'm not going to put what I think women want to hear. A conversation is the best way to learn about someone.
About contacting me: if you're interested in talking to me, then please talk to me rather than the classic "Hey there :)"....I'm guessing there some sort of quick contact button that generates that message. Just saying "Hi" doesn't require any response other than "Hi" back. So let's skip the awkward hello's and get right down to talking about stuff.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something casual like meeting for drinks or lunch. There's no need to add extra stress on an already awkward situation.