Well I truly believe trying to stay positive is great compared to being negative.But I think pretending to yourself that everything is great when it is not is a waste of time.The most important thing is thru good&bad just simply staying focused and not letting bad experiences keep you from moving forward.
I like almost all music if in the right mood.Dont really follow the artist and what they are about,just the music.Would have to admit most of the time have no idea what they are saying but I like the beat and usually make up my own words.Guess I wouldnt do so good at karoke(lol).I have some weightlifting goals that am into but am not necessarily looking for someone into the same,if you have fitness type goals thats great.If not no big deal its just my personal thing.I also like nature,mountains,long walks,hiking,roadtrips,zoos,musuems,parks.Can enjoy almost anything in the right company.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Anything simple where you can talk and actually hear the person.I think a little activity helps so you dont feel so frozen like your at a job interview.Maybe going to a small amusement park or zoo.I beleive if there is enough interest in a first date there should always be a second unless the first was horrible.A first date is akward for both people and your not really seeing the true person,but its necessary it has to start somewhere and maybe you can laugh at it later on down the road.