Okay so here goes, you wanna know about me.. I'll try to sum it up for ya but sure its bound to be a lengthy read so... I'm 36 have two children, I am an ONLY PARENT. so needless to say I have baggage as some of you like to call it.. I am VERY outspoken and opinionated I guess you could say very strong willed, brutally honest.. none of the above to where you would be embarrassed to go into public with me. But I am not willing to change any of these things about me. However I do and can choose to do them with class. I'M SURE SOME OF YOU are done reading by now and that's fine by me, you may think I'm quite a b*tc*.. well kinda..but I also know when and who to direct that to also. I'm really just trying to be as honest and clear as I can be thus leaving no misconceptions as to what kind of person I am and what exactly it is that I want and expect .. so if your still here then I guess I'll fill ya in a lil more.
I am looking for friends. NOT A FF, FWB, BOOTY CALL! no I'm not a prude by any means but want to make it clear if that's what you have in mind forget it! I'm not ur girl. I am looking to get to know people and have a friendship if it goes farther then fine. But as of right now I am not wanting that. IF THINGS DID PROGRESS. I do have standards... I know what I'm looking for In a man.. I guess if you want to know what that is keep reading .. FOREMOST honesty.. someone who is not narrow-minded, open, MUST HAVE A JOB! able to support yourself, not been in jail or prison For most or even a good percentage of your life.. I understand people do make mistakes but if you are someone who never learned anything from them, then you are condemned to repeat them. And well I don't want any involvement with that, you must be able to accept my children (18&15)! They are my #1.. I expect to never fall short of being your everything, nothing other than your/our children should ever be more important than I/we are to one another! I know relationships have struggles,but you can work thru them or just let them destroy everything, I am a firm believer that love can overcome all. I don't want to stumble upon a rough spot and get stuck living there day after day. I want someone who values his family! Family is important to me.. not to the point you can't make a decision on your own without calling your whole family.. but as in respect and value them.IF YOU DO DRUGS OR HIT WOMEN OR ARE AN ALCOHOLIC .. THAT'S A HELL NO! hummm... if you lie, cheat, play any head games... I'm DEFIANTLY NOT FOR YOU! I have this impeccable way of knowing EVERYTIME! I do have a "type" tall, thin, and CAUCASIAN! I been told I'm to picky .. BUT... I guess I just know what I want and I'm not going to settle. I want the best friend I can grow old with.. talk to about anything, the butterflies in my tummy everytime I see you. I want to look forward to the end of the day, knowing I get to sleep In your arms. Can't wait to see you when IWake up. To know everyday I'm loved, and to give it back to you .. I'd rather set my standards to high and maybe chance being happy than settle and fake a smile and be empty inside. Guess if ya wanna know anything else message me.. if not happy fishing :-) ....i'm not going to rush in2 anything at all.... I am scared to death of being hurt again so take it easy. IF YOUR LOOKING FOR A BARBIE DOLL TO SHOW OFF.... I'M NOT THE ONE! I AM A THICK GIRL. AND IF YOUR TO SHALLOW TO BE FRIENDS WITH A THICK GIRL...WELL DON'T EVEN BOTHER! I'M VERY OPEN MINDED.DONT GET OFFENDED EASY. KINDA A WARPED SENSE OF HUMOUR. IF YOU HAVE A BLANK PROFILE AND NO PICTURE DON'T BOTHER SENDING ME A MESSAGE I WONT RESPOND. DON'T JUST MESSAGE ME AND SAY UR HOTT OR SEXY... Once again. I won't respond. I require respect!... sorry if I sound like a b*tc*..but like I said before I'd rather know we r on the same page. Guess if ya made it thru all this.. drop me a line..
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
walk on the beach, movie at home, mid-night swimming, idk really down for anything.. don't care 4 theaters.... would like to be able to talk and laugh with sum1.....P.S...MUST LOVE ANIMALS! I have 2 dogs, 3snakes, a ferret, not to mention the kids...lol I love them all and will not part with any of them for any reason!