Food for thought.
If your average attractive woman who is active on an online dating site receives 7 messages a week or more and your average active attractive man receives less than 1 message a week wouldnt that create a false sense of superiority for the one and a false sense of worthlessness in the other?
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
After you play hard to get and finally squeeze me in your schedule I plan a really interesting date where I pay for most of it and carry most of the conversation.