The number of an age is just a number...it is all about the way you think, feel, and act. There are people who are 40 and think and feel and act like 80...there are people 80, who think and feel and act life 40....I am of the first! If you actually read this...then I am of the latter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As Priscilla Presley said: "It will take a very special kind of guy to be loved and give love the way I can."
Anyone can type anything....So let's start with Truthful...open, honest, compassionate, passionate about life and all that life can offer is ME....Life is very short at its longest and I love life and all it offers! My energy is positive and have very little room in my life for negative people....I love the beach, sailing, walking, reading, volunteering, music of almost all types, concerts, theatre, ....Love to entertain and love fine dining. Really love travel...new places, new events, new people, new activities...Enjoy watching football, basketball, golf, tennis..and enjoy playing golf and tennis, dining in with candlelight or pop corn....
Every person is unique in and of themselves.....and I carry my uniqueness with great pride and dignity, as I would want my guy to. I have spent my life helping people and it is a joy to wake up ever day with the opportunity to contribute to life in a positive way....
The past helps to shape who are are...but does not define a person unless they choose to live in the past....and I don't! There are very few things in my life I would change, and living with guilt or regrets deprives a person of the joy of today....so I live in the present...as I look forward to tomorrow. As long as I am breathing...I will be experiencing life...not existing!
Romance is a part of my personality and character....in everything...and especially in my relationship. I love to spoil my guy and loved to be spoiled (and I have enjoyed being spoiled).....love to cuddle, hugs are super (anywhere...anytime), kisses are special and bring us closer, love quiet candle-light dinners in or out, just being together with a walk or sitting on the beach watching a sunset, or slow dancing and experiencing the exchange of shared feelings ....there are so many ways to express what one feels toward another....and Yes, flowers are always welcomed! (Spoil me and the return is multiplied)
A very important element for me is to be able to have meaningful, intelligent, conversations....it is also important to be emotionally and intelligently healthy in the areas of "think, talk, take and give" to each other.
My profession/business allows me free time, travel, and to re-locate for "my guy" if it fits....Computers have made our lives easier and, at the same time, more complicated....and I release complications at every opportunity!
Each of us are different and unique in our own way...and that is why a few words on a computer screen and photos only begin this process.....many wonderful people will be over-looked for one reason or another...and that is very sad...and yet....this process is what it is...so we make the best of what we can share by computer and then move toward the next step....actually hearing each other's voice....and then actually meeting...and that is where two real people have an opportunity to make more informed choices.
I look forward to this part of my journey and should you think you might enjoy these first steps,
I welcome you! and Great things that could happen actually have a chance to happen!
As I talk much better than I type....please let us talk and then meet.....I ask that you respect my time and KNOW...I will respect you and your time.....
Should you choose NOT to contact me for whatever reason...I wish you the MOST happy and productive journey that you do choose to take and with whom you choose to take it. Be Safe and Blessed
My career allows me the luxury of setting my own schedule.....and it allows me the freedom to be involved in it as long as I CHOOSE....and I will always be involved in HELPING PEOPLE! It would be ideal if my guy would love to involve himself in this endeavor...it would allow us to live, love, share life together...travel and make a long lasting contribution to people all over the world. Of course, there is no perfect world on this earth...and I really believe the two of us can create a life of total fulfillment! If this sounds like a life you could love, please...let's explore it together!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
For me....the on-line dating service is an opportunity to connect with people I would not have the opportunity to meet...and for the other person as well. After meeting on the computer and exchanging computer messages...it is time to talk by phone and see what chemistry is there....then, if we choose to proceed, we agree on a time and place to meet and greet....more chemistry is determined....from there....we arrange to spend more time with each other getting to know each other....through that process, one builds friendship which is a foundation for any relationship.....and from there.....ideally, we would be excited about sharing our futures together!
The first time to meet...a public place...quite enough to talk and listen....
A second meeting could be mutually chosen after greeting and sharing.....My ideal would be a romantic setting....as I am the ultimate romantic!