please note.....i only have basic subscription here not a paid one so for those of u that wanted to meet me I can't see who u are or anything so can't reply to some of you...limited on what I can do here sorry!!!!
SO tired of the game playing here if you are not being honest or serious about what you talk to me about as far as dating and such...regardless of what your seeking...then please don't waste my time here...I recently met a guy from this site and found out after talking to him...then meeting him...that he is a flake...a liar...a user and so on but I thought he was a decent honest and truthfull guy but he prooved himself wrong just as I thought but I gave him the benefit of the doubt to prove me wrong but instead he proved me right. Why do people put single and wanting a relationship etc. On their profiles then it is totally the opposite? And found out he has a girlfriend already that he's been with for a year so why and what was he trying to scam me out of...hmmmm a bit odd and acted strange anyways so I should have known better to begin with. He would talk to me a lot via text then stop for days on end then talk to me again then stop. I'm not letting this allow a wall to be put up as far as others go but ill be more cautious as far as what I do and will be cautious of others actions too. I'm not one to compare one guy to another but the flakes will get no where...women included. He was very strange..flaky and creepy just by his actions...they say actions speak louder than words so true. I'm not here to mention any names but he knows who he is....he claimed to be a man and not a loser and such but that he also prooved out to be a lie. Honesty is the best policy in life if you meet someone and you know there is no chemistry there then say something immediately to the other person instead of trying to use them for whatever reason sexual or otherwise that is wrong and mean. If there's no connection there then say so and move on...not hard to do really. I prefer the upfront honesty from someone over the lies...using...and such. No one man or woman needs to or should have to go through that wilth anyone regardless!!!!! And it
Seems as though when I find someone I am sincerely interested in, it never works out for me. I get a lot of guys that are way older than myself wanting to meet me and are interested but not anyone I am interested in personally. I do not feel a click with them what so ever. I do not want to meet someone in their late 60's and up, that is not me or what I want. Two people have to click and be interested in each other for anything to possibly work out....! Not trying to be rude or anything but hey, I am 50 years old and I have my preferences just like everyone else does. I am going on 51 years old and not getting any younger...! But I also try my best to hold my own for my age and don't think I'm doing to bad on that personally. Beauty is also in the eyes of the beholder women and men alike...works both ways. I am not fat even though I've gained a little weight but I think that comes with age too lol.
I am only looking to date at the moment but
nothing serious right now maybe later and if I don't find that later oh well ill stay single. I am tired of being hurt by trying to find a long term relationship! Wow, can't even find anyone who wants to date me on a regular basis...what is the deal? Guess I am not good enough for ANYONE! as nice as I am as well as kind and generous etc. as a rule, it's not happening and when it does, it is too good to be true, then I am alone again....unexpected things start happening then next thing I know..I never see or talk to the person again, wow...and this is suppose to be a dating site huh? Date someone, then dump them, or use them, then dump them? I do not even know anymore and beginning to wonder about all these sites now.....almost not worth being on because no matter how hard i try, nothing gives for very long....am I wasting my time here?????? Sometimes I think I am! This also includes women as well, who think they can use a guy for the same reasons etc. No one, man or woman, deserves treatment like that.
I am not all about meeting someone just to have sex, I want to meet someone who wants to enjoy life and wants someone to hang out with, do things with etc. Life is not all about just sex......it is more than just that. So, I guess if that's all you want, then I am not the one for you, if you want someone to hang out with, do things with etc. then be serious and talk to me......then maybe and hopefully we can arrange to find the time to seriously meet. My life does not revolve around work and sex, it is more than that. Not looking for anything serious right now but open to hanging out, having fun and see where things may go later.
I enjoy crafts,poetry, quiet moonlight walks on the beach,dining out,movies,sight seeing Victorian homes as well as traveling, attending concerts and bluegrass festivals. any outdoor events usually,swimming,Hot Tubing. As far as Music goes...I like country,rock,bluegrass,heavy metal etc. depending on the mood I am in at that time. Amusement Parks are Ok too, I also enjoy that. I love the Upper Peninsula if Michigan, would love to one day, be able to spend a weekend there with no worries or even own a small cabin there someday but that is a long ways down the road, if it ever happens! Either way, love and enjoy the general area even if only to visit for a weekend. I love going to places like Mackinac Island,and touring ghost towns out west, I am Unique in my own ways...so if we are ever able to meet, then you can define my Uniqueness in your own opinion! I love to go riding in the summer, attending
,swap meets, biker events etc. I love Harley's!!!!!!
I am also easy going, passionate, Lovable, loyal, caring, and like showing how much I care just by doing little things that a lot of people would not even think about doing. Just looking to be happy and hoping to find someone to do things with, someone to enjoy life with, as far as a relationship, I am not gonna jump into anything too fast, want to take things slow and let them fall into place on their own.
Want to enjoy what life has to offer as I am not getting any younger. One of my all time goals in life is to own my own business and possibly my own bike, which I do not think I will ever get but it's nice to dream I guess. Love kids, I have one of my own.........!
Enjoy just hanging out even if it's a BBQ outside, I am easy to get along with and not hard to please and can be very supportive of my significant other. I love sitting by a fireplace in the cold of winter and snuggling next to my significant other also.....just the simple things in life, make me happy. Love going to the races, and hockey games as far as sports are concerned. Enjoy going to the Flea Markets, love animals. Love tattoo's and piercings on a man but, this is optional, also love l
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Dinner and a drink, or maybe a movie and a bike ride or even a Concert would be nice and play things by ear, see where they go from there......like I said, I'm a simple person......!