Warning: I am in a relationship. We are poly, if you don't know what that is you more than likely won't fit within our relationship or dynamic. We are a kinky couple who live in an M/s dynamic 24/7, again if you don't know what this is you may as well move on. I am his submissive and slave. He is my Dominant and my Master. We have a very happy and healthy relationship. Do not think for a moment you can take one from the other; we are a package deal. I am homoflexible, but view myself as straight. He is openly Bi and is a Versatile. We are looking for another Bi-Versatile who can complete us. proceed with caution.
I am a 32 year old female who is mostly straight. I am in the BDSM lifestyle, let's just get that out of the way. I am a slave and submissive. I am a touch of a masocist, more of a SAM. I am very youthful and playful with a good dose of Brat down for good measure. I have been poly my entire life. I have been in the lifestyle my entire adult life.
I am intelligent and consider myself attractive. I also consider myself sane, at least the majority of the time. (We all have moments where sanity is a matter of perspective.) I enjoy the outdoors in the warm months and fully believe in hibernation in the winter. This girl doesn't do cold. I like to fish and shoot. I have a love for archery. I am a good combination of country and city girl. Girly, girl I am not. I wear make up occasionally. My launage is foul; I would put sailors to shame. I got tom-boy down! I have naturally curly hair and in the mornings even Medusa would be worried. (I know I'm really selling my self here, but best to put it all upfront.)
He is a 40 bi-Versatile male. He is a Master and Dominant. He has a good bit of Sadist in him coupled with being a Primal. He's been back in the lifestyle for roughly five years.
He is a smartass, is intelligent and attractive also. He loves the outdoors, hunting and trout fishing. He's a veteran who severed in the Army for 8 years. He likes to talk shop, guns, and is always looking to learn something new or start a new project.
What we are looking for...
Someone we can go out with who can actually hold a conversation. Go figure, what a concept? We want friendship first and foremost. This is a marathon not a sprint. You should understand the concept of poly. If you are in the BDSM lifestyle even better. We want to be able to hang out in vanilla settings then hit the scene at other times. The BDSM community in this area is fairly large. We aren't looking for a one time thing we are looking for someone to be an equal part of us. But she would like an on going play partner who is preferably bi. As long as you don't attempt to take one from the all and cause friction all should be well.
We have open and honest communication at all times and expect the same in return. If you lie to either of us we won't play that game. We have very little tolerance for bullshit, just don't do it. We expect you to be intelligent and attractive. If you're hung even better! We expect you to be truly Bi and a real Versatile. If you think you can handle something like this great send us a message if not don't waste our time.
If you send us a message that contains actual words we'll respond. If you send us a message with text lingo, dialogue, short cuts or acronyms. We'll simply ignore you for the sheer fact we are not going to take the time to decipher your message. If you can’t muster up more than a few words you can expect to get no more than a one liner response. If you are able to form a few coherent sentences you’ll score more points.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
We want real people, you'll eventually have to meet us. We are game for coffee or a beer. We want to get to know you and give you a chance to know us. Send us a message and go from there. We are flexible, but don't stand us up. Don't be a common flake.