HONESTY & Maturity are probably the most important rt now!
Pre 2/28/14 Christian, Country girl looking to see if there are any hard working country guys (not boys!!)out there. Therefore I'm not here looking for sex!! I want/need/deserve MORE than that. So if that's what you're after then keep fishing. Anyways...I've been a sugarmama for some loosers in the past and I'm tired of busting my butt & getting no help or appreciation back. I'm pretty independent. I want /deserve to find someone who is at least as hard working as me & wants to play just as hard. I would love to find someone who appreciates me as much as I appreciate them. Someone that will do unexpected, sweet things for me, maybe spoil me a little (never had that). I want/need/deserve to find someone who wants something more real,true, & long term that could very possibly lead to marriage. I have some "old fashioned" views, and I'm a Christian with the morals & views to go with it (reason why I don't have kids-never married). I love the outdoors & outdoor activities. I Love animals, always have. I own horses and dogs. I like to go out and have a good time, and I love to dance. I listen to all types of music. Love kids & they seem to love me back. I'm not the typical/average girly girl in so many ways.
Post 2/28/14--Had an unsuspected Double Cerebellar Stroke. That COMPLETELY flipped my entire world upside down & all around. No Warning signs. Neurologist said I should of died twice because MOST people that have a Single Cerebellar Stroke DIE. So I'm thankful and blessed that I'm still here & that I've improved a lot. Although I'll never be the 100% old me. I can work towards becoming a 200% better me..?..I'm pretty determined. I still like to do ALL the things I used to do & Neurologist says I'm limited by my determination & drive to do what I want to do....So NO PROBLEM????????It just might take me longer than what I want it to, but I have reached ALL the goals I've set for myself & I'm NOT going to stop!!
I have horses & fur babies, 2 boxers &1 special needs cat (I always told myself that I would never have a cat in the house. But I found/rescued him as a kitten, about 6-10 days old. He has neurological damage, and can't survive without my assistance.) So, my cat and I are a pair with both of us having neurological problems that have/will affect our entire lives now, & in the future. He was just lucky that I was able to walk out to the barn that day & find him.
9/24/2016--Again...I am another very rare medical case Lol. Even though all my doctors (4 of different medical practices) told me I shouldn't have another stroke....I did, unfortunately (right pons-below cerebellum). I am a medical enigma. All my doctors, including a few new 1s,are shocked & confused about me having yet another stroke (especially since my health and strength tests are very good-better than good- like b4)& I'm still here. It was pretty bad...& affected both of my eyes & my speech more. But God is good, & I only spent 1 week in the Neurological Intensive Care Unit @St Vincent Indianapolis+ 1 week at a stroke recovery/rehab unit at IU Ball Hospital-Muncie. Yes, that was an Awesome short stay, & doctors & therapists are amazed at my recovery & determination. So, I was able to recover A LOT quicker from this stroke than the last double stroke. Eyes & speech are good now. I was even able to go on my annual trail ride/camping trip (lasts 7-9 days) with friends & family 2 weeks after I got out of the hospital..!..Yay!! So, it's safe to say I'm doing very well...better than I was when I was released from the hospital the 1st time. Docs don't want to say (guarantee) that I won't have another stroke, but I shouldn't. Although with any medical condition/problem, after it had happened once, it can happen again. But, that's NOT going to stop me from doing what I want to do. I know with God on my side & good support from friends & family, I got this. I might be slower at doing things,& it may take me longer, but I'll get what I want done. STILL Not Stopping! In the words of Dorey from 'Finding Nemo' & 'Finding Dorey,' "...Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming, swimming...."
Oh & by the way if you're looking for some1 to play, mess around with, or stand up when we mutually decide to meet...KEEP FISHING!!! Don't Waste MY time. I'm NOT here for sex!, or anything of that nature!! Honestly, REALLY!!! So many of you guys are looking for a REAL woman, but what woman is really real if she gives you the goods the 1st time meeting ...???...
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I don't require anything fancy/lavish, just something nice. Could be something simple. Surprise me
If I don't respond to your message for a while, it's NOT because I'm Not interested or blowing you off or anything like that. It's because I'm busy living life,& I don't have time to go online & long in so I can check my messages. I've been known not to check my messages for 1+ months??Sorry in advance if I don't respond to you promptly. But, I do make a point to respond to all messages