BeTrueLove: A good man is hard to find, so is a good woman...
Non-Smoker with Thin body type
Seattle, Washington
37 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Other
Asian, Cancer
BeTrueLove is actively seeking a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
IT owner

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets No Pets Second Language Other

About Me
I observe a disturbing trend in dating: the high quality guys (educated, good looking, great job/income, came from good families...etc) tend to be taken straight out of HS or College by some lucky women (aka "early birds"). They're ready for some major mistakes come mid-life crisis, bar a few lucky/smart/content ones. I call these A grade men. If you think you are an A-grade straggler, you need to immediately email me, though I may be very suspicious of your claim. Mid-life crisis makes A-grade men do stupid things. Even if I capitalize on their stupidity (ie. leaving their good wife and kids for a hot younger thing like me) it also does not exempt me from their other future stupid decisions that may also ruin my life.

The B grade ones struggle but still yearn to make something of themselves. They have above to average looks, OR formal education but no advanced degree. OR maybe they came from a broken home and still struggle to learn how to negotiate a good family for themselves despite lacking good guidance and examples from parents, OR maybe they had well-intentioned well-meaning parents who support whatever stupid decision they may make in their lives such as not working hard to keep their family/wife/kids under the same roof. Maybe they make enough to pay for a nice house/condo in the city and is consistently employed by the same company. They're hoping to land an A-grade girl. But A-grade girls are hot items, just like the A-grade men: hard to find, and you have to fight off a lot of competitors. If you think you are a B-grade man, you should also email me, but know there's a lot to prove and much to strive for.

I believe I am a B+ to A-. Hope for a decent match.

The C grade ones have some major hurdles: they did not finish college, OR maybe they did, but are physically unattractive, OR unhealthy/unhealthful, OR employed inconsistently OR clear less than $70K a year when they are sporadically employed. Even if you are good looking, the nature of this game says you're still a C-grade man, despite your fading good looks. C-grade men should not contact me.

Anything below B should stop here and move on to the next profile...


First, please don't expect to know much about me without a phone call, and meeting face to face. I will not share what I do today with you. You could be a burglar who happens to spot his mark on here and is casing the joint. Don't go there.

Also, don't ask me personal information before I have a chance to hear your voice on the phone or have met you in person. You could be a Nigerian or Hong Kong scam artist and waste my time. I don't get scammed.

If you want to know about me, ask me out properly. Improper requests to chat or text endlessly will be ignored. I only talk to people I already know at length. If I don't know you, which means we haven't met and are just corresponding online, I will not have long winded conversation about my hopes and dreams with you into the wee hours of the morning.

I'm responsible for my time. Just because I don't spend it texting or chatting endlessly with you, it does not mean I believe it's more valuable than yours (even if it is, you won't hear me say it) It's my prerogative how I should spend my time. Those people who earned a spot in my heart deserve more than someone I don't know from the internet.

If you have less than a bachelor degree, OR are not currently running a thriving business that generates millions since you quit college to build, OR struggling with grammar, I may not be for you. I am disciplined and tough in general, even if I do possess a gentler side. Few people have seen it.

I view men who are not ambitious, uneducated, lacking in courtesy and manner unsuitable for me, yet they keep emailing me on here. Like they never read what I wrote above. So annoying.

I dislike selfish, narcissistic psychopaths who live for no one but themselves (even when they have children, some men always put themselves first with much less consideration of a family, a community, or other people.) Me, me, me culture makes me ill!

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Phone call first. We'll see how that goes before talking First Date.

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To send a message to BeTrueLove you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age Between:28 and 45.
Lives in United States
Lives within 75 Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
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Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke

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