One of my goals right now is to find a tender hearted man to share my life
with. This does take work, but I have confidence that this site will do just that.
If this goal is met, my new match would appreciate me for some of the same music,
hobbies and goals that I have.
I love to listen to music: CD's at home, live concerts, or music highlights
on T.V. With my large dog laying on the floor beside me I enjoy reading, board games
and on cold nights a beautiful fire. I hope you like dogs!
My aspirations are many: One is writing novels to help quench the thirst of the
masses to escape into a world of reading. I especially admire women who do something
to help them grow and if a man can be beside them he is the lucky one.
I admire men who are tender hearted but can still be masculine. They are the
true gold of the earth. They are proud of who they are and what they have accomplished but are still able to be proud of an ambitious, intelligent women who stands beside them with similar goals for success.
A sense of adventure and surprise are hobbies for me: a walk on a crisp day,
a road trip to a small town, biking to find things in nature, a baseball game, a
hockey game, a trip to a ski hill and travel, travel, travel.
It is great to have hobbies, goals and aspirations but to share them with
someone would be the ulimate; someone to laugh with, have an intelligent conversation with and to holds hands with would be more than all the chocolate in the world.
So, do you love dogs, do you want an intelligent woman who is slim, good
looking and ambitious to share your days with and who loves to travel; I would be
willing to give our chemistry a try.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Our first date would have many possibilities! It would of course
depend on where we both live. Do we drive to meet, fly to meet? I know
that seeing a person for the first time would be a little scary for both of
us,but it would be worth the adventure.
My first date would be at a romantically lit restaurant in a quiet corner
where we could talk and you could tell me all about you! I love to hear a man
talk about himself at first, but the mistake could be made easily that the other
person would not get the same chance. So I would want both of us on the first
date to talk about ourselves in the best possible light and to impress upon each
other the strengths we have as people. Then we could talk about how we could compliment each other as a couple.
I would love to eat Italian or Chinese and then share a gooey dessert
like Mississippi Mud to get all high on chocolate (optional if you don't like
chocolate LOL) I think by doing something fun we can see the real person inside.
It would be great to have a theatre night planned after dinner or a
hockey game or basketball depending on the season. I know men love sports and
this would be a part of our time together.
Later it would be great to go for a nightcap somewhere and then decide
where we would meet for the next date. I would not expect any physical close-
ness on the first date. I think it is fair to really see a person first by
watching and listening; that would take the pressure off of both people.
Sometimes chemistry does not work; I also think that two people should
be honest about that, however, that would take more than one date to find out.
Therefore it would be great to give ourselves time to find out!
These are ideas, however, it would be the most fun to plan a first meeting together over the internet or phone. This would allow both to feel comfortable and of course fun would be included. I am hoping this date will happen because(it is
good to spend time alone) but it is 'great' to spend time with someone who 'gets'