A lot of people say they don't take dating sites seriously. But I think that's just a front, a social wall we put up to hide our vulnerabilities: lonliness, fear of rejection, attention seeking behaviors, etc. No judgement, I just think it's an interesting dynamic.
I do hope to have fun, though. Meet some people and maybe go to a shooting range or a groupon painting and wine thing. Be cool, don't be shallow or petty, there's enough of that on tv. I drink a little, 420 every now and then too. No peer pressure.