I love doing anything in or near the water, I wanna go out and play, I wanna have no inhibitions and giggle, and act silly! I hate guys who are too quiet, shy, or soft spoken, if that describes you don't bother, also, I am a very physical person, and I want to see pics...good pics, recent pics. I have an 16 year old, he is outgrowing mommy but I love the crap outta him! Try not to regret past mistakes, but damn I wish I had a crystal ball so I can be sure not to make them again. I can't offer much except for my sparkling personality, at least 1/2 a brain and can carry on a conversation, fit in anywhere with anyone, and like to have fun, please don't try to bring me down. I want to find someone who knows there is a time and place for everything, and somehow know where that place is and when it's time! I want someone who is non-judgemental, and not a control freak but is not afraid to take charge when it's appropriate. If you live outside the Tampa area, expect to drive cause I wont come to you, and if you have 5 kids and three baby mama...go get yo kids...just wanna see whats out there and make some friends along the way I hope!