To start with if you are looking for casual affairs or short term relationships/hook ups/interludes I dont think we are a match... Also I believe all great relationships start with friendship so I think that is a good place to begin and get the building blocks for a relationship down, if you don't have friendship, respect and trust from the get go, what kind of foundation do you have? That being said I am looking for a good guy with heart, kindness, character, and integrity. Someone traditional in their values but modern in their thinking where male and female relationships are concerned.If you are not this type of guy please don't respond.
I am looking for someone I am compatible with, whom I can have fun with, we are able to laugh together, may enjoy some of the same interests, someone I can communicate well with, the chemistry is good between us and the attraction is mutual. Also, someone I can share the ups and downs in life, we are able to be there for each other, teach, learn from each other, and grow together.
I am looking for a guy who is a similiar place in life, wants a long term commitment including children, after getting to know each other for sometime, and agreeing the continuity of the relationship is in the best interest of both people, and that together we would make good parents. Also recently realized , I need to add, when I referred to longterm commitment I am still a fan of what some would consider the failing misery inducing institution of marriage lol..though thats not my viewpoint on it. So to sum it up I am not interested in being anyone's baby mama. I need u to be willing to make a formal commitment in the relationship.
I value honesty, kindness, compassion, empathy, and flexibilty; and do my best to bring these qualities to a relationship.
Activities I enjoy...hiking, reading, eating out, dancing, summer festivals plays, museums, movies and farmers markets.I like almost all country, rock, alt, rb, some classical.
I enjoyed working in the healthcare field in the past, however over 2 years ago I became a nanny which I also enjoy and am good at. I may return to the healthcare field. I may consider returning to school to be a social worker/therapist or doula. Also interested in aspects of spirituality, and psychology.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
dinner, open some activity, we can speak, and get to know each other better