BECOME ENGAGED AND WILL BE TAKING THIS PROFILE DOWN. I WANT TO THANK MY POF FRIENDS ON HERE WHO HAVE BEEN SUPPORTIVE. I WANT TO WISH EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU, MALE AND FEMALE, GOOD LUCK IN BEING AS LUCKY AS I AM IN FINDING YOUR SOULMATE. I AM THE HAPPIEST I HAVE EVER BEEN, I FEEL BETTER, I LOOK BETTER, AND LIFE IS EXCITING WHEN YOU HAVE TRUE LOVE IN IT. I HOPE THAT THIS INSPIRES YOU TO KEEP HOLDING OUT FOR WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE. MY SOULMATE WAS UNDER MY NOSE THE WHOLE TIME; AND YOURS JUST MIGHT BE, TOO! :)
Ardent, affable, affectionate, adventurous, Arian, decisive, and direct. Love the arts (theatre, museums, etc.) but also enjoy a good concert/comedy event, Lakers, Spurs, and Kings games. Enjoy most music EXCEPT for Natalie Merchant, Bob Dylan, Bluegrass, Tejano, Doo Wop, Death Metal, fist pumping techno, Christian Rap = CRAP.
I'm more of the Ali Wentworth seeking her George Stephanopoulos. Hard to get but easy to keep. My motto is "dating is what you do so you wont have to." I really don't care for the modern-day dating process. I'd rather be dragged by my hair back to the cave. I just need to meet one, THE ONE. We get each other, no preambles necessary.
First string on the Olympic Backrub Team. Never met a spa I didn't like. Appreciative of the usual and unusual romantic interludes. Take me anywhere from a sunset stroll on Laguna Beach, playing with (non-red zone) puppies in the Yosemite snow, tea with your grammie, swimming with the dolphins in the middle of nowhere, dancing til dawn, or to any formal affair. Not your one dimensional lady. Never boring. I enjoy being the WOMAN in my relationship. Yes, I have a geek fettish for all things techno, however, when it comes to the romance quadrant, I prefer greeting cards to text messages.
Well...enough about me, let's talk about YOU. How do YOU like my hair? hehe Seriously now...My partner in crime is not petite in height or boney, more of a MacGyver man (non-Seacresty), masculine, does not own more haircare products than I do, is unencumbered, balanced, fun, comical, quick sarcastic wit, upbeat, creative, full of surprises, takes control, non-passive aggressive, dynamic, slighty-nerdy leader type who loves his momma, can fix stuff since I'm too Aries and auditory to read a manual, enjoys a variety of activities, his high tech toys, and a game of word-theme Scrabble or Cashflow 101. Maybe you're an architect, "consultant", commercial real estate investor, hedge fund manager, day trader, internet guru, or headhunter. You have the ability to compress and compartmentalize your time and activities. Someone who controls their schedule essentially would be ideal. I just want you to love what you do and be so good at it that you aren't afraid to take a break and play. Your school group sports photos probably featured you holding the ball. Someone who enjoys Public Displays of Affection vs. being on their PDA texting/sexting/poindexting incessantly, likes to grill (without slathering and cremating a perfectly good filet to an unrecognizable state, medium rare, 4 min/side please, in the summer, maybe catch a trout or two, play in the kitchen, as well as, knows how to make reservations at that hot new restaurant for special occasions. I actually prefer to cook and entertain.
Seeking my complimentary counterpart for happily everafter.
Prefer logical/emotional balanced, rational, and calm personalities. (Nervous people make me nervous.)
Spiritual is great, like Kerry Shook or Rev Michael Beckwith. (Extreme my-way-or-the-highway cult views scare me.) Bill O'Reilly...no! Bill Maher...yes!
If this resonates with you, don't be shy, drop me a line and include your email at minimum or your digits.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Anything but an interview with coffee. Let me see if I understand this ridiculous trend...You have a masters degree, you indicated "looking for a long term relationship", you're romantic, successful, and creative. Your first date with your future wife and the story you'll have to cop to is that you took her to get a coffee. Really??? Am I missing something here?
Chemistry doesn't happen over coffee breath. Let's be creative and non-passive. It's called DATING! If you don't know how to do it, just ask your dad how he got your mom to go steady, wear his class ring around her neck, a little heavy petting at the drive in past curfew, while courting her to the aisle. I GUARANTEE he didn't text her to meet for coffee. (So lame, cheap, boring, uncreative...nexxxxxxxxt)