I decided to try this instead of (in addition to) Bumble. I’d prefer to meet someone organically but I’m rarely approached in person. So here I am...
I’m not looking for hookups or casual flings. However, I won’t jump into a relationship with anyone. Sooo, looking to date exclusively and grow from there. I’ve been on way too many “first dates” and it’s tiring.
I’m ok with just being workout buddies. Volleyball and football (catch) are some of my favorites. Basketball is cool too.
Fair Warning: I’m a bit blunt. I won’t reply to lazy messages or people I have no interest in. I’m an insomniac, perfectionist and workaholic.
I’m working on expanding my company’s product line. It takes up the majority of my free time at the moment since I am my only employee. However, it gives me the freedom to set up my work schedule. Flexibility will change for me if I opt to sell my products in person on certain days of the week instead of online only. I’ll know if I’m doing this over the next 4-6 weeks.
I do not drive but I’m ok with some distance. Typically I can get away for 1-4 days at a time if I set up doggy care for my pup.
I’m only attracted to people who have goals and don’t feel content. I want someone to grow with. I’m seeking someone to add to my life and who will put in equal effort to a healthy relationship.
I’m only interested in talking with men who can have an open, transparent and honest conversation about what they really want in life and from a relationship. We don’t have to share interest in the same exact hobbies (it’s best if we don’t) as long as we have the same core values. Be able to communicate P L E A S E.
I’m not vanilla but I’m not super extreme or into gross things. So that’s a conversation you have to be willing to have quite early on as well. If you’ve ever been accused of being corny or cheesy, you’re probably someone I’d wanna talk to.
Ummm. I think that’s a good start :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Your Goals. Places you’d like to travel to. Your hobbies. Favorite foods. Ask about my company.