11/20/17- new rant: what's up with so many men claiming to be in the Army & y'all are deployed or getting ready to be deployed? My Pops is a Marine vet, so I have loads of respect for servicemen. With that being said, it you're truly legit about being in the service, just know I won't be sending you any ITunes gift cards. Come on now, this girl ain't no fool.... I'm not sending s*#t to someone I've never met!!!
-Men, why do some of y'all only have 1 pic on your profile? Then to top it off, it's not a clear, facial pic... it's usually a scenery pic, car pic, body shot, or blurry pic. Come on, did y'all forget that this is an online dating app... ya may have a great "about me" section but no one needs a Catfish moment. Guys can be just as fake as women.... yes, women may lie about their age or angle their photos to look better but I have noticed, that men also filter their pics. Men also fib about their ages & use photos that are more than 5 yrs old. So with that being said, if I don't reply to your message, please don't be offended but I know what I like & I don't want to waste anyone's time here.
Secondly, I have read many profiles stating that you're an "open books, ask me anything" or you'd like more than a "Hey there" message, then a piece of advice, add some substance to your dang profile. Enough with the "will add more later", give a girl some interesting info so she can start up a convo....lol
- During my free time, I like spending time with my family & friends; going to Angel games, tailgating for UCLA football games, lounging/watching Sunday football (Go Chargers!!), running (5Ks, Mud Runs, Obstacle runs, Disney half marathons), catching a movie, concerts, attending musicals, playing pool or darts at a local dive bar, hiking.... However, I do have a lazy side, who likes to cuddle up on the couch with a glass of vino & watch movies.
I can't see the peeps who click on "meet me", so don't be shy, stop by & say hello.
- PLEASE ONLY MESSAGE ME IF YOU HAVE PHOTOS ON YOUR PROFILE. As much as I love the male physique, please have MORE than just shirtless pics. It would be nice to see 1-2 clear facial photos that are recent. A killer SMILE can go a long way, so show those pearly whites.
I'm not trying to discourage any messages but thought it would be helpful to be upfront here, I tend to prefer Caucasian men. Especially those with nice broad shoulders/ back & ME LOVE me some biceps!
If you're a social media junkie (no judgement) & want to see more pics or just do some social media stalking (lol) as a distraction, you can find me at Francogoofy on FB & Snap or Hypergoofster on IG.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
something simple & casual... just so there is no pressure for either of us. Maybe something simple as going to get some ice cream, go for a hike, a round or two of pool/darts/bowling or Happy Hour with some football or baseball time. Keep it simple, in a comfy setting to have a little conversation without the awkwardness....