I read and write for money as well as fun. I read lots of tech stuff for work and lots of fun stuff for, well, fun. As a consequence I have a broad as well as deep range of knowledge and interests. I exercise regularly, as in 4 to 5 days a week. I dislike the cold, but when the weather is warm I prefer to be outside at least one day of the week, since my job keeps me in an office. However, I am comfortable at home relaxing after a day''s work as well. I believe in balance as opposed to obsession. I hate ideologues. I can have lengthy, detailed, repeated discussions about almost anything. I start at a place of respect and let behaviors determine how things progress from there.
I am analytical as opposed to emotional, though I am capable of great emotion. I am calm as opposed to excitable, though I also crave a rush. I am deliberate as opposed to reckless. I am supportive. I am engaged with my partners. You will know quickly if you like me or not.
The things I will need from you: integrity, invested in your health, available to spend time with me.
Things that don''t define you and aren''t interesting to me: your race, your politics, anything that doesn''t contribute to you being a whole, healthy human.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
What matters to you? Do you like pets? Where is the greatest place you''ve ever been? What is your favorite concert? What is your favorite movie? What is your favorite food? Where do you want to visit?