I've recently come to the conclusion as to why online dating no longer even remotely works for me. My process of attraction literally starts from the inside and works its way out. The way someone carries themselves, their facial expressions, their vibes, how it feels to around them. That's the sh*tthat hooks me, makes me want to kno more, intrigues me. And once I'm hooked everything about that person becomes beautiful and perfect. Truthfully the guys I end up pining over aren't the most attractive guys, only to me lol Anyway point being, those qualities aren't easy to get a feel for in places like this. So yea, I jus go on here to chat a bit cuz I can ??
So as to not waste anyone's time God forbid
This app is currently jus something to do out of boredom, chat with ppl, or whatever. I probably won't meet up unless we actually hit it off, like really interested in one another.
Currently under construction, please enjoy this quote while you wait
“The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.”
I Like all flavors
I Love chocolate
Annnd can we like jus see where it goes? I'd love to have found the one I love and be together and all that, don't get me wrong. But finding love isn't like filling out a form. Don't talk to me as if you're auditioning me to be your wife. Like friends are cool too. Good friends are hard to come by. and honestly I'm sick of the labels, it's like you have to fit in this category or that. I say, just let the relationship flow. Don't stress trying to figure out which category it falls under. Maybe that's why Facebook included that it's complicated option tbh imma a lil lit writing this and I may delete it in the morning :)
I'm not for everyone
Look I can't meet every man I exchange a few messages with. I'm a single mom. Gotta give it a little time to determine if there's enough interest between us to meet. It's just not feasible for me otherwise. If I went out with every cute guy I exchanged a few messages with, I'd never be home. Not trying to have my kid at the babysitter like that. I have no problem with meeting in person though, I've met several people through here and have maintained friendships with a few.
You can’t be ugly AND boring ?? kidding not kidding
Oh yeah I have a car, a full time job, a full time kid, my own place, and I have for the past 11 years. Sooooo I don't need you to take care of me financially, but imma need for you to be able to take care of yourself as well.
I have snap
Body pics r jus good angles or something, I'm actually way thickerrrr lol and yet I'm not into bigger/heavyset men. Just not my thing
I'm not going to meet up to ****. Guys, I get why u try. But as a woman, I don't need to go online for that. So why would i risk it? So if that's what ur looking for, PLEASE don't message me thanks
I Kinda just keep adding onto this randomly. I don't even expect you to read this far. Because I definitely wouldn't. Wait I take that back, I would skim it and if it didn't seem like the normal blah blah blah same old BS I might read it. Especially if it's broken up into paragraphs like mine. Especially if it's randomly broke it up into paragraphs like mine.
Disclaimer: if you're receiving one word boring blah responses from me it's because I'm bored of the conversation, OR I just don't have anything to say much more in response to whatever you said. Or just saying a simple tru, is really what I mean. I'll just go ahead and say it, I don't put much effort into it. I don't think you should have to. It should come naturally. If you say something that I have a comment or question on then I will respond accordingly. But if I'm responding, I still have interest to see if I will have interest. Or mutual interest. Whatever.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's grab some drinks and appetizers...no pressure
And by drinks I really mean a blunt, I don't drink much