Single and Happy - and that's the truth.
However.... that doesn't mean that I'm not looking. Who doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone special who they can share their life with?
I'm a California native but lived in New Mexico for about seven years - absolutely loved that part of the country. I like to take road trips; I like movies that make me laugh, make me cry or are completely action filled; and I'm absolutely crazy about my 13 year old nephew, and 9 year old niece - my nieces first attempts at my name were "Marmet" - I loved it!!! :) She no longer calls me Marmet but it makes for a unique user name - lol.
****The 'Open/Undecided' under 'Do you want Children' means that I am certainly open to meeting men with children, it is just no longer an option for me.
I have attended the same church since I was five. My church life and church family are very important to me.
I bought a condo 15 years ago and have really gotten into the whole “homeowner” bit. I never knew I could lay tile, install hardwood floors, install closet doors, put up crown molding (I cheated and got the corner blocks so that I didn’t have to miter :)) - I really enjoyed using the nail gun!!, I have even installed new patio lights and a new chandelier in my dining area with no sparks to be seen anywhere when I flipped the power back on! Yay! :) I also installed a programable thermostat and it works too!!! There's no stopping me now. :) Recently redid my fireplace surround and built a mantle - ALL by myself - even though I did break a toe. :-)
I enjoy watching sports - football, baseball, golf and tennis. I would LOVE to go to a night match at the US Open (tennis) in New York someday. Believe it or not, it's been my mom who taught me what I do know about sports. :) The end of the baseball season always comes too soon - I'm always ready for the new season to begin - anyone interested in live baseball??? :) I like the idea of seeing at least one game a month - sounds reasonable to me. :)
I would LOVE to travel around and see a baseball game in all 30 stadiums!!! :) I usually hit Vegas three times a year (poolside with a pina colada!!!) and visit a friend in the Bay Area a few times as well. I'm all for planning ahead - but have taken off to Vegas with just a days notice. :)
I like to go out with friends but I’m also happy to stay home and read a book or watch TV. I’m usually content in whatever is it I’m doing and rarely find myself wishing I were someplace else. I think that comes with age. :)
My Ideal Match - well, I guess I'm looking for someone who is kind, caring, has a sense of humor, and most importantly values family and friends. ------- By sense of humor I don't necessarily mean someone who can crack a joke all the time - but someone who in the midst of taking care of their responsibilities can find something to smile or laugh about.
~Someone that you enjoy spending time with - no matter what it is you're doing.
~Someone to talk to at the end of a crazy day, who will let you vent and then laugh with you when you’re done.
~Someone who you can sit next to and not have to say a word and be totally comfortable with.
~Someone who will give you a hug for no reason at all.
~Someone who adores me as much as I adore him – but will understand when I tell him to “Chill” when his Type A personality takes over. ;)
~Someone to laugh with.
~Someone who enjoys the simple things.
~Someone who wants to hold my hand.
~Someone who is as crazy about me as I am about him. That's all I ask. :)
HOWEVER......If I meet a new friend - someone to just hang out with - then that's okay too. :)
My experience on this site is leading me to believe I am better off on my own. :)
Just an FYI: If you are separated - you may feel that you are single, however in my mind you are still married. I'm sure there are plenty of women who do not have a problem with this, so good luck.
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