***PLEASE READ IN FULL BEFORE APPROACHING ME!!!...Thank u.***
First and foremost, I'm a genuine LADY, in every sense of the word. Please keep that in mind when messaging me. Thank you in advance. :)
Second, I'm supposed to tell you about me. Hmm, that's something that's much easier to believe when seen, but I'll try. I'm a fun loving person who enjoys being around fun people. I'm pretty out-going and might be a bit reserved around new people initially, but I love making new acquaintances and friends, so I loosen up quickly, in most situations.
Let's see, I love to laugh, and to make others laugh...it's healthy for the soul and brings positive thoughts. Life's too short to be sad and negative all of the time. To even consider approaching me, A person MUST have a good sense of humor, being that I joke most all of the time. I'm serious when it's necessary, but only then.
I'm not here for all of the games people like to play. (and I'm not talking about video games, either).
I don't deal well with Fakes, Liars, Players, Creeps, Cheaters, Alcohol/Drug Addicts or Thieves, so if you are in one of those categories; PLEASE keep scrolling past my page. I believe, most of the time, life is what you make of it, so to be in 1 of the...um (crap I lost count, lol! Oh yeah!)... 8 previously mentioned categories would make one's life sad and un-productive, which is NOT what I am looking to have in my life; in any way, shape or form.
I'm a person, who has experienced quite a variety of life's experiences (good and bad), and still looks forward to the next day and whatever it may hold in store for me...Life is to be lived (hopefully with someone), not stifled. If you don't enjoy each day, then you only cheat yourself...
I'm a very true and honest person, which is why I'M HERE FOR FRIENDS FIRST, since all forms of relationship are based on the friendship that develops, primarily.
My experiences so far with people from this site, over a 2 yr period of being on and off, haven't been the best. So again let me repeat this part (for those with a short memory)...I'm NOT here for players, fakes, creeps, cheaters, liars or any of the other things I mentioned earlier.
I'm told I'm a very "unique" person, in many ways...which isn't always easily seen, without time being taken to talk to me. I'm sarcastic at times, but alot of it comes in the form of humor, as I really don't like to offend people or upset them un-necessarily. If there's something that you wanna know, and it's not already in my profile, then, by all means...please ask! I will gladly answer any question presented to me...within PROPER reasoning, and proper etiquette. It'd be REALLY GREAT to meet someone who can hold a regular conversation about various topics, not just focus the conversation around sex-related topics. That is VERY played-out, and I'm NOT interested in that type of convo when I am first getting to know someone.
I am also relatively shy when I first meet anyone, but will usually open up and become quite talkative once I begin to feel more comfortable with whomever I am around. I'm very out-going and love spending time with friends, as it adds to the fun and spice in life.
**** I DO have some tattoos, so if tattoos intimidate you or cause you to instantly stereotype me as if you know what I'm about because of them, then I can almost guarantee that I am NOT the one for you. I am proud of all of my tattoos, all are cover-able when necessary and none are tasteless. My tattoos are my art. And please, do not let the ink fool you, I am a LADY in every sense of the word.****
I'm NOT looking for "Mr.I need/Want 2 be fixed"...I'm looking for "Mr. I'm not perfect, but neither are you". That's the person willing to make subtle changes to their lives, to include you more and more, as long as it's reciprocated. It's give and take..equally.
I am also NOT looking for someone to support me, nor am I looking to support anyone. I support myself just fine, thank you. And if you want to be supported, I suggest you go find a job, your parents or a sugar momma; because I can guarantee that I'm not the one for you.
To put it bluntly, I'm looking for that ever elusive man that I can call my friend/boyfriend/possible future/my other half.
I AM NOT here for a booty call, or a 1-night stand. I haven't ever done them, and don't plan to...Thank You very much. I'm a LADY!
So if you think you have what it takes to approach me in a "respectable" manner, then please do so...I look forward to meeting you.
To those that have less faith in their "gentleman" style abilities...Have a good day and good luck in your endeavors. Smooches!!! :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Well, a friendly conversation out in public is always appropriate, for a light lunch or dinner and a few drinks, so that we would have the opportunity for conversation and getting acquainted with each other.
Like it says above, I DO NOT have a car, therefore I would either need to be picked up/dropped back off or plans made at least 4 days prior to meeting, so that I can make arrangements for transportation to meet you at the designated place we agree upon.
*Also, a quiet meeting at either person's residence is "unacceptable" and out of the question, and being that I am a LADY, would be an in-appropriate suggestion.*
"Mind your manners when approaching/talking to me. I have a "block user" button, and I know how to use it.Lol!"
*****AND 1 last thing, Just because we go on "A" date/1st meeting type thing...Does NOT give u a right to try to feel me up or grope me! Remember, I am a lady! Please, Let's keep a tight grip on reality and our manners!****