This is a profile update...7/19/16....Please don't message me repeatedly if I don't respond to you in a day or so, if you do, you will be BLOCKED. And if I'm not excited enough about you meet within a couple of days or you have not time to do so, I will not be interested, as you probably don't have enough time on your hands to date anyway. I would like to be able to see someone 3 or more times a week. Proximity is very important. Driving for me would get old after a while...I'm just being honest and realistic. There's way too much blah, blah,blah on here. Be a man of action!! I think POF is what you make it. If you want to "Meet Me", then send me a message...If I like what I see and read, I will respond. Strike up a conversation before you FAVORITE me...otherwise you're just a creeper...Also, if you can't or are not willing to treat a woman with respect and chivalry, don't bother. I am not trying to come to your house until I know a bit about you and feel a certain level of comfort. I'm not trying to have any conversation that pertains to sex...Sex is the easy part...GROW UP...or go somewhere and pay for it!!! Please be respectable, be worthy!! I want a man of substance and quality. Ok..my rant is over! Whew!!
Now a bit about me. Firstly, I'm the mom of an amazing 18yr. old who lives on her own. I am a hairstylist. I have a small, cozy Coral Gables salon. I am currently working long days in tv production and take some weekend clients in salon...
I love hanging out with the girls, but would much rather spend my free time with that special man in my life. I am looking for something serious and long-term. If you're just looking to hangout or get laid, I'm not the woman for you. I'm open to all races. I usually like someone very different from me, someone who can teach me/show me some new things. I'm always open to a new adventure.
My hobbies include, cooking, light reading and d.i.y projects. I enjoy all sorts of music and enjoy dancing to just about everything from hip-hop to salsa. I can even rock out at Murphy's Law (GIVEN A FEW DRINKS). I am a huge horror movie buff...anything crazy & suspenseful.
I usually participate in Miami Carnival, though not of Carribean descent. I enjoy going to new clubs, the theatre, art exhibits and gallery openings, as the scene here is ever-changing. I love to try different food/drinks. A man that cooks well is a true asset....and can be very seductive...Mmmm! As most, I love to pamper/be pampered. Include the word green in your message to let me know you read this.
Please don't be offended if you message me and I don't respond. The initial attraction/fantasy has to be there. Please have pics (more than one) that are CLEAR and CLOSE UP. I would very much like too see your eyes, not your favorite sunglasses! I also would prefer not to recieve messages from men not looking for LONG-TERM or WHO ARE 10 OR MORE YEARS OLDER THAN ME. I just feel like it wouldn't be a good match. If you don't know how to pamper a woman, keep it moving!
Thanks for viewing my profile....all the best in your search for Ms.Right!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A meeting for drinks/coffee is just that....a meeting to feel out the other person.
If that leads to a first date, I usually prefer going to have a nice meal, some drinks, a really good chat, and a bit of dancing afterward to find out if there's a spark of any kind there. I usually know right away.