JadedlyOptimistic: Relocating north soon...
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Visalia, California
39 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Scorpio
JadedlyOptimistic is looking for a relationship.
Masters Degree
Emergency Medicine PA/Reserve Fire-Medic/Army

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 4 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets Dog Second Language Other

About Me
After being on here a little bit...I've realized most guys aren't looking at this garbage anyway!!!! :) Sooo I guess if you're interested in my picture message me....

Small rant on pic pet peeves...Pretty please can you have non-blurry, right-side-up pics that show YOU. Not a group of people with no clue on which one you are..Not pics of your dog/cat/fish/reptile that don't have you in them...Not pics of just your car/motorcycle/boat etc. I like toys too, but this is not AutoTrader..And what's with all the dead animal pics?? My dog kills things and brings them to me all excited-I dont find that sexy, its GROSS!! I don't mind guys that hunt...But this isn't caveman days-I won't date you because you killed me dinner and brought it to me all bloody..Save those pics to grunt about while you scratch your balls with your buddies LOL!! :)

*****I am NOT looking for a casual sexual relationship-if you are PLEASE don't message me!!****

-------->I have been told my profile is too long. So I am adding summaries for those who are too busy to read my novel......

But for those who are actually interested in what type of person I might be (or if I am a psycho or not)...And for anyone literate enough to have read this far...First off, I'm not opposed to serious...I want to find serious, actually...but I think you have to just hang out with someone and see if there is chemistry first! I believe anyone who says they have no baggage or issues...is full of it. We all have stuff going on. Just looking for someone whose quirky jagged edges are a decent match for mine.
--------> Somewhat crazy, but you never know, you may like it! Likes guys who can read and spell.

I consider myself to be a very motivated and goal oriented person. I work hard and play harder!(that's such a cheesy over-used line) I am definitely a people person and like to be around friends/partner a lot (when I actually have time off). I work full time as a PA, part time as a PCF (wanna-be firefighter) and recently joined the Army National Guard as an aeromedical (flight) PA, so stay very busy. I also maintain all my licences for medic and work per diem at that from time to time..have been in emergency medicine for 16 years now and have an undying passion for the entire emergency services/first responder and medical fields..and learning...and for my patients....and for LIFE in general!!! I am seeking someone with similar qualities, and goals of their own.
--------> PASSIONATE. Ambitious. Affectionate. Driven. Actively pursuing goals-ALWAYS.(If I like you, YOU are all of those too) Semi edjukated. Has jobs, loves jobs. Doesnt need your money..(but not gonna be your "sugar mama"...)

I don't really have a specific hobby I do every weekend like "scrapbooking"(do NOT understand how that is enjoyable-but to each their own!) I like doing LOTS of different things...skiing, SCUBA, Spartan Races, boating, watching movies, hanging out with friends, wine tasting, road trips to list a few...I go to the gym, but refuse to call it an "interest"!! Freakishly enough, I consider many parts of my profession to be something I do for fun!!..But I find there is enjoyment in doing almost anything if you are in good company....is that you???
--------> Likes to do neat stuff. Especially active/outdoors stuff. Scrapbooking is not neat.

I imagine great compatibility with a person that has a very driven personality and is PASSIONATE! Not content to meander down life's paths, but someone who wants to climb it's mountains and take on every challenge life has to offer!! I love a person who can have an intelligent conversation with me(way harder to find than you would think). I also find a spirited debate very stimulating, as long as you bring a logical argument to the table. It may sound odd, but I think a sharp vocabulary is sexy...(With the proper amount of vulgarity and slang thrown in-I do work EMS/Fire...cursing is mandatory..as is the ability to control it when appropriate)..
--------> Dislikes apathy. Loves excitement. WILL win some debates. Loves it if you can use words. Mouth like a sailor(only sometimes). You GOTTA be PASSIONATE too!

I like all kinds of music such as Metallica, Flogging Molly, oldies, hard rock, symphonies/classical, rockabilly..I listen to a lot of new country, and a new favorite band Motel Drive, but am also a huge fan of Johnny Cash..and I swoon every time I hear Andrea Bocelli..(Con Te Partiro-amazing!) ..But usually on my commute you can find my SIRUS on political/world news..I am an avid follower of politics and world events. As far as being unique..I AM unique and different-just like everyone else! I love tattoos and have a couple, one that is very large..But can cover all of them and play the nice girl too. I like a good red wine, and dining out (with metal silverware), but drinking beer and watching football at a favorite hangout also rocks (Firkin was the best)!! I think its fun to get dressed up and get pedicures with the girls, but I totally dig getting a little dirty too(Spartan races are AWESOME) I have one son who isn't a kid anymore... pretty much self sufficient already. Not looking for a "baby daddy", just be cool with him. Anything else you want to know, just ask me!!
--------> Likes kick ass music. Digs great ink(guys with tats-YUMMY) But you gotta be able to pass as a good boy too in some public situations (no face/neck tattoos, giant holes in face/ears) ... No stereotypes apply..Not a girly girl, but not butch lez type. HAS A KID.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I wish I had something great to say..But where we would go and what we would do is irrelevant. I am looking for that connection where no matter what we are doing, we are laughing and having fun. I think PASSION, intelligence, humor, and HONESTY are the most important qualities in anybody I spend time with...I can have fun doing anything with the right person!!!
--------> Just freaking send me a message already.

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