calicatb81: Friendship and then actual relationship, no games!
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Derry, New Hampshire
38 year old Female, 5' 8" (173cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Capricorn
calicatb81 is looking for a relationship.
Associates Degree
Animal Lover

My pup, Delilah. Clearly torturing her for a selfie. ;)

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Red Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets Cat & Dog Second Language English

About Cathy
Let's see....

I need someone who's real. I was living with my ex, up until a month ago when he took his life. He was my very best friend and so I am going through a really rough time. I need someone who he's compassionate, loving and can understand that life can get messy. I'm working my way through this the best I can, but would love someone to have by my side.

I love animals, am a vegan (not the super judgemental type), LOVE kiddos and so if you have them, awesome!

I moved to NH after being in the SF Bay Area for 15 years. So this is a massive change for me. I'd love to meet an open-minded person who is spontaneous and up for anything at any time. Must love animals.

I love music and have a wide spectrum of musical tastes: Pearl Jam, Willie Nelson, The Killers, Led Zepplin, Regina Spector, and a gazillion other musicians and bands. Live music was something that I was very into in SF, but haven't found any great venues in the area.

I love to cook and can make meals that would make a carnivore turn vegan! :P I kid, I don't intend to change anyone, just perhaps expand horizons for someone!

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Well, I guess I will say what I'm looking for in a relationship. First and foremost, I believe friendship is crucial. I want someone who I can be friends with and if the chemistry is there, I am open to anything! I'd like to meet someone who likes to have fun and has a great sense of humor. I tend to be very sarcastic and hope to have someone who can keep up. One thing that is so important to me is an intellectual connection.

While I am a lefty liberal who is not religions, I am VERY open minded. I love to learn from others about their perspectives and ideas. I grew up in a very conservative household in the very tip of Northern Maine and most people in my family are quite conservative. I felt this needed to be addressed as this area is a TAD different from Northern California. ;)

So if you are an open-minded, KIND, respectful person who is easy on the eyes and open to meeting as friends and seeing where it goes, contact me!

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