I may have written alot, but there's much more to me than a few paragraphs, and I would think there's a lot more to you as well...
For a connection with someone, I'm more drawn to those who are positive and playful, both intellectually and physically and someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff.
-easy going, laid back, happy, down to earth, and very open minded
-I love to laugh and be around those that can poke fun at the world or at me and each other!
-hard working, goal oriented, mature and intelligent
-but also young at heart and spirit
-I'm in a comfortable spot in my life and I know what i'm looking for in a partner and what it takes to make a great relationship
-I need to feel that certain level of chemistry and passion for someone too that makes you enjoy being affectionate with one another
-I'm looking for a best friend who likes balance in their lives.
-I can be silly and goofy at times and serious when needed
-I have a lot of energy and keep physically active, but have no problem taking it easy and relaxing with a cold one and even some couch time or movie time to wind down
-I do mainly just the sports I love to do right now, but I'm always up for a new challenge or activity that may be one of your interests ...or maybe I can inspire you to do a running event or other activity....
-I have a 9yr old son that I see part time (every other weekend until 4pm Sunday and every Wednesday overnight). I'm a fantastic Dad and spend quality time with him when I do see him and we like being active together usually. He's very charming and a very well behaved little guy! I'm not looking for a mom for him -he has one (and I can cook and clean my place just fine on my own! lol). I'm fully divorced which happened many years ago (just an fyi).
Lets take things naturally and see where things go... ...absolutely no pressure, no expectations... just have fun and see what happens if there's a connection....
-are a happy and easy going person with a positive outlook on life
-love to laugh and can take a joke
-lead an active life and relatively healthy lifestyle with a decent (or high) energy level
-are hard working (when you need to be), and have a passion for things you do and enjoy
-are emotionally healthy, stable, and available and know what's important to you in life
-are looking to let a relationship happen naturally
-are at least sometimes spontaneous and out going (or even being that way all the time is great too! :-)
-are also independant, intelligent, open minded, and with a great sense of humour
-do not create drama nor like drama yourself -you instead are a good listener and work things out calmly, openly, and honestly so that any disagreement simply feels almost like a usual conversation and not much more: Life is too short so keep it fun and stress free as much as possible!
-we enjoy one another's company and like doing things together on our own; like doing things together along with friends and family; like having a little normal time apart, and basically like balance in our lives. We are basically best friends in many ways.
-we are always honest and respectful of one another and accept one another for who we truely are (i'm sure we each have a couple of quirks however! lol)
-we enjoy waking up to one another and the physical chemistry side of things definately has a passionate flair to it!
If you've actually made it all the way this far and you think we match up quite well, then message me and lets see where things go.....
As far as music goes, I like a wide variety, but do have some favourite genre's (country however, is not one of them, haha!).
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's keep this casual for a first 'meet-up' and we'll figure out if there's to be a real first date if there's a connection. So let's meet-up for a drink at a quiet pub/restaurant or possibly a walk in the park. Even a coffee is fine by me.