Life changes…I love it!
i've shared a bit of myself in this space for the last year and a half. obviously it hasn't worked for me, so i'm gonna spiff it down.
i've finally figured out what it is that i am looking for in a man.....
I like attending major rock concerts. when i really like a band, i head for the front row. This year, RAMMSTEIN and Five Finger Death Punch were my headliners.....I made it to front center for both, but the push/crush is so much harder than it used to be!
at both concerts ....there was a woman at the front rail with a man behind her. the woman got to enjoy the concert without having to fight for her space...I want that kinda man!
i am a very unique individual, very strong character. Good chance you've never met anyone like me. i've never met anyone like me. glass half full and then some.... LET IT GO! I love to laugh and am excellent at providing laughs for those around me...spiritually secure with no need to share and absolutely non convert-able.
i have an excellent life, excellent friends. The only thing missing isn't necessarily a partner. It's an intimacy issue. I've been single long enough to know i love living alone, doing what i want...when i want. going wherever i please...whenever i please. However. i'm not a big fan of celibacy.
I WON'T/don't put up with drama and strife...yell at me once and we're done! (unless i'm about to be hit by a car)... i can agree to disagree on almost every topic. I love to laugh and can find humor in almost every situation. i am secure enough in my non prejudice-ness to be completely politically incorrect...i've been adopted into enough cultures to be completely capable of pulling it off.
i am looking for a long term friend with benefits...weekend fun, vacations, events, places...i like to pay my own way, never yours....i expect to be treated as an equal, with respect and appreciation...what i expect to be able to give.
and you younger guys, i get it, but if you aren't at least 35 i'm not about to even consider....don't waste you're time~!
Also, I don't respond to "hey sexy" or "hi there" or "how are you doing"...not here to chat. If you haven't posted a picture (or you're picture doesn't match you're profile), don't expect a response.
i have no expectations....no judgement...i enjoy meeting people from all walks of life...just present you're real self and maybe...(unless you're -35 or +60)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
something fun in the sun...
......has always been my favorite idea for a date! however, i've realized since moving back to humboldt, that is kinda unrealistic.....so if it isn't sunny it's your call!