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Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Bend/redmond, Oregon
51 year old Male, 6' 1" (185cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Taurus
bigdoginbend is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic
Project Manger / Consulting

Oregon Coast at Sunset

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Chris
I Hope you take the time to read my whole profile, it is meant to make you think, and to begin to understand a little about me. Hope once you read it you will drop me a line.

Please know how to have a active conversation, that is thought provoking and interesting. It gets boring to always be the one asking question in trying to get to know each another.

Looking for long term, But it takes dating and making friends to get to that point. We can make this what we want it to be. First Lets just meet as friends and go out and do things, taking the pressure off, making it relaxing and see where it can go from there, I'm not much into endless e-mails or texts back and forth, You really can't get to know someone that way,or a bunch of phone calls, I rather see the smile on your face and hear you laugh as we get to know each another. There so many things around here to do let's just get out and enjoy some of these great things.

I have a heart of gold, and looking for someone who whats to be happy in life. I also have a great sense of humor, some people call it dry, Sarcastic. But I can make you laugh, I'm a good listener. Ask me any thing and I will tell you. I’m very open and up front I'm not in to judging but in trying to understand each another, I'm a hard working man who enjoys when things are done right. I enjoy the good things around me and willing to try new things. What really matters is having someone to enjoy life with, and who wants to be happy, I'm more like a otter if I can't have fun I won't do it.

I don't need to drink to have fun,I do have a drink once in awhile and I'm fine if you drink, I have never been drunk, just have never found it to be enjoyable, and I'm really not interested in hanging in bars or have the focus be on drinking to have a good time, I don't mind going out once in awhile. I enjoy the fresh air around me and hope you can respect that,. That is who I am. I'm not in to head games, I'm just keeping it real. I call it like I see it, doesn't mean I'm judging, Life is great, if you want it to be. Life is like the waves in the ocean some days are highs and some are lows it's just matters how you ride out the wave.

I'm a Christian, God is very important to me in life, I may not go to church all the time mostly, I don't like to go by myself, I'm far from being perfect in life, but I do know the things God has done for me.

I believe in finding and learning all the things that make us happy and the things we enjoy, Not everything we do, we will have in common, and that is OK. So we can make sure to make those things happen, I believe in sharing things together, to find our interest and to enjoy them together by each another side, There is no better pleasure than to make someone happy and see them smile and hear them laugh and share our time together.

I also enjoy the great Outdoors, the fresh air, and wind in my face, I enjoy the beauty of the Mountains, rivers, waterfalls, and sunsets. I enjoy getting out to see new things and Also staying in and watching a movie and cuddling up together or cooking together. I believe in making things better by doing what I can.

I like most all kind of music. I'm not in to rap or this head banging scream stuff. ( not calling that music )

I like to be goofy and make people smile, which is a rewarding in itself. I'm spontaneous and creative can just get up and go, I have a passion and enjoy sharing things with each another.

If there is something you want to do, lets just make it happen, So many things to do and so little time, The most important part is that you can express your feeling, and communicate to share with me, and to keep a conservation going, I'm not into always having one-sided conservation of asking question. Share with me your passion and interest in life. Help me understand how you see the world though your eyes and I will do the same.

I have two great boy's 16 and 21 that I have every other weekend which isn't enough. I spend my time talking with them ( as if teenagers like to ) I check in with them on what things they are doing, and find encouragement and guide them in their life, Always try to find different things to do with them and point out things we can learn to do... There are so many things to teach them and I try to find them in the things we do together...

What is Dating????

I have been on here for a while, I have met some nice people and made great friends, I have had my share of interesting people that I have met too..Everyone is looking for that one person, which just takes time to find, Everyone looks at things different, mostly when it comes to dating, I have been wondering how we all view dating, and want dating is.. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but to do so means getting out and meeting new people, Lot's of people seem to just be checking out this site out and not sure what to make of it, I'm sure non of us ever thought that we would be on line looking for someone, I'm not a bar person, I couldn't image going to a bar to meet people to see who is there, I'm not going to be standing on a street corner or holding up a sign and walk around, Saying "Look at me I'm single, and looking" (lol).. So here I am on line which is where people can look to see who there is and to engage in conversation with people who are also looking, Meet and Greets, Dinner, Going out for a walk downtown, etc, is what it takes to meet people, that's just all part of finding someone, those are called dates, It doesn't mean we are dating, I say that because it seams that people have fears of talking to people and going out to meet someone, E mail's and texting are a lame way to get to know someone, You can learn a little bit about each another that away to start, But the way we Smile, or Laugh the way we communicate with our body in every day way's, get's down to one another feelings, If I just wanted to chat with someone on line, I'm sure there are apps to find somewhere to fill that need, But I am looking for a real human (female) connection something that is real, someone to laugh and smile with, a hand to hold, to get out and share life with, Finding someone means that we don't have everything in common, but it's a willingness to see life though someone else's eyes, to see a different point of view, Is it the sunset over the Mts that catches your interest, Or is it the clear blue skies and the fresh air of a day going to rest, the colors reflecting from the sunset, or just spending time with someone special to share those things in thought in our mind, the sound of the tree's blowing in the wind, the birds flying by, or the formation of the clouds in the sky, that we can point out to each another, There is no one right answer to those question, and each day it will be something different that we see, or feel..

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's find a Adventure, Something new or different to see, no pressure, and just enjoy ourselves, A time to laugh and a time to learn about each another and enjoy life...or Something low key.

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