I am spiritual, but not religious. I believe in a higher power but do not claim to know it's name. I believe in and work with magick.
I work four ten hour shifts a week and I work graveyard shift, so I am a true night owl. I have gotten used to being up, alone, all night and so I enjoy things like watching movies, playing video games or doing crafty projects.
I think relationships are built on respect, honesty and support. I will be supportive of your goals and passions and I hope you will do the same for me. I don't believe in ownership, I expect you to trust me and I will trust you, if I don't trust you, I won't be in a relationship with you. If you don't trust me, I won't be in a relationship with you. I am too old to deal with over-possessiveness and jealousy. I can't build a partnership with someone who isn't capable of trust. A relationship is a partnership with a shared goal of building a life that is mutually beneficial and pleasant.
I am not a ball of clay, I will not be molded into someone else. If you think I look like a good project, or a trainable pet, move on, you will be sorely disappointed. If you want to teach me how to do things, or work on projects with me, I am all about self improvement, but I am who I am, and it is very unlikely that my behavior, personality, ambitions or values are going to change. If you don't like what you see, you never will.
If you are looking for someone sincere, loyal, trustworthy, open, available, and unambiguous, I am your guy. If you find these qualities boring, well then I am boring. I don't play games, I don't cheat, and I don't pretend. I respect myself and am confident enough to live without you. I am not overly emotional, I am probably a bit under-emotional. Most of my decisions are based on the logical results of actions. That may seem dry and soulless to the idealist, but it is who I am.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
The first date is about a chance to meet you.
So I am thinking coffee, or drinks and maybe a game of pool or bowling. Somewhere where we can talk and MEET each other.