So here it goes, I always like to think I'm a boring normal, but as this world grows around me or as I age (not sure which)
I find more that defines me, is not like other women, I'm a kind woman, I have no agenda other than living fully and honestly. I am amazed how rare that is. I work hard and actually enjoy a good full day of projects..its the achieving something new..it can be it mowing or painting and it can it can be a zen moment.
I enjoy Art of pretty much all types..enjoy all sorts of music from classical to Indie Rock to old school Rock and Roll and much in between..
I love cooking good food and sharing conversation .. great ideas and laughter center around a friend full table is the best..cooking is food for the soul.
Now some personal clarity of myself, my principles and where my focus and the life plan I tend to follow.
First & foremost I'm genuine I believe in honesty and the power of your word. I don't make promises I don't intend to keep.
I believe in compassion & simple kindness...faith and trust. I consider myself as spiritual not religious, there is a difference to me. I believe in walking my talk...meaning living by my words.
Straight Up: If you are separated..you're still married to me...either work it out or get the paperwork done before contacting me. Bringing a new person into the drama is not an asset or fair to anyone.
If you still grieve for the ex-wife or girlfriend or they you...pass me over...Please...it never ends well if it's not ended. Trust me on that one.
Relationships always take work and feeding; we as humans are always in a state of change & growth. The key is to keep your partner aware and up to speed with your growth...which leads me to communication..it's the huge must have.....even if there is a loss of words, quiet listening builds trust and brings what I call the comfortable silence just being next to another.
I am a strong passionate woman..tenderness and caring is just who I am.
With all this being said I am a pretty independent woman, I have a good mechanical mind and am very capable with tools. I do not have to have a 24/7 partner relationship as I have my own interests as I am sure another does as well.. but it's the end of the day, the setting of the sun of a day fully lived and to share it with another.. that is my goal..to have and be a champion, best friend & partner.. and the long and everlasting.
**ALSO I AM A NON-PAYING MEMBER..IF YOU SIMPLY DO A MEET ME IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN OR WORK.
Just send me a quick note/email I will get back...it may take me a wee bit as I work full time but I will.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A good dark beer and a long conversation is always a good beginning.