ABOUT YOU: I am looking for someone to show me that decent guys really do exist because I am truly convinced that my ideal guy is not out there. Who is my ideal guy? He has to be ATTRACTIVE (not into fat guys sorry), intelligent, mature, no drugs or smoking, little to no drinking, preferably nonreligious (but if you're religious so long as you don't want a religious wedding and you won't raise your kids in your religion I'm okay with that), wants kids within the next 5 years (2 kids or more)... hmm and knows how to appreciate a woman and treat her with respect. I'm looking for a guy who isn't afraid of commitment and is going to run the second he starts to feel something because he's too scared to see where it goes!
ABOUT ME: I have been such a workaholic lately! Most of my time is taken up by work, teaching sixth grade math. I enjoy working with kids. I am not really a people person but I am a kid person (kids are not people ha). I am definitely a math nerd too. Aside from that, on the weekends I like to relax and unwind from the week by lounging around in pjs! I play my N64, wii u and 3ds, playing a lot of Zelda, Mario, and Donkey Kong! I'm a classic video game nerd. I really like Mario and Zelda. I wish I had my old super nintendo so I could play tetris. If you can relate to any of this that is awesome because I really need a guy who respects my nerdy side and can even join in. I also like to catch up on tv shows, watch movies, play sims 3 (although school keeps me too busy to play often), practice learning some Spanish, do jigsaw puzzles and bake.
I don't get out much, but if I had a guy to hang out with then maybe I'd go places more often. If I have someone to go with I like to go to zoos, amusement parks, parks,the fair, movies .. hmm and other places.
**Please don't message me if:
- you wear shirts that nearly go down to your knees because they are so big
- you have more shirtless pics than anything else
- you listed "not looking for a relationship or any sort of commitment" on your page
- you are obsessed with the gym (emphasis on obsessed)
- you are drinking or holding alcohol in many of your pictures
- you are making hand gestures in your photos
- you are older than 33 (I'm sorry, but I just haven't been attracted to anyone older than that)
- you didn't bother to fill out your profile, especially writing things like "just ask" (If I wanted to get to know someone from scratch I wouldn't be on here)
Bottom line: Just because you think I'm cute or you are interested in me it doesn't mean I'm interested in you. Please keep that in mind when deciding to message me. I really REALLY do not see myself with someone who fits the above descriptions. I'm an intelligent, mature woman, a teacher educated at UC Berkeley and I write in full English not slang and ghetto nonsense and deserve a high quality man. I'm sorry if you find this offensive. If you do then you probably fit one of the above and SHOULDN'T message me. Also, show a little effort. I clearly have taken the effort to fill out my profile carefully and thoughtfully to reflect who I am and what I'm looking for. If all you have to say is "Hey, what's up?" or "Hey, how's it going?" then don't bother. Show a little effort and show me that you read my profile and are interested to know more. Don't send me a simple greeting. That's a waste of time.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
It doesn't matter much about what we do. I don't mind just eating out (although that's hard for me these days). I also like to go bowling or to the zoo. Some people have issues with going to the movies on a first date, but for me a first date comes long after we've been talking awhile so I just want to see if there's a connection in person too so I"m fine with movies.