I'm not paying member so I can't see the meet me feature.There should be chemistry. but you can't have chemistry without putting two components together.
With that being said, Albert Einstein said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
I only know that if you keep an open mind you will find the right partner. And you will know it is right. A relationship should not be hard. If it's the right one. It should be easy easy like Sunday morning. that's why I'm easy. Easy like Sunday morning. Sorry I got caught up in the song there. I understand that you have to have that chemistry. I am not into games.
I will try to tell you about myself. I'm an intelligent, funny, romantic, loyal, honest, and a trustworthy guy with a good heart. ..and most important I still have my hair, my own teeth and I don't own a Monster pick up. I'm in the Halloween business. I mean what I say and do. . I have three adult children and one fourteen year old girl that was adopted from China. She lives out of state with her mother. I really don't photograph very well.. . Most people say that I don't look my age and would have never guessed my age. Age is a state of mind, not a number...Maybe it's because I haven't started eating dinner at four o'clock or going to bed at eight. But I so want one of those floppy hats....lol...
I'm not looking to date a lot of people, looking for someone to share with, and build a LTR. I like to travel or just stay home. I like to get out and explore the world around me and what it has to offer. jump in the car and just see where the road leads us...I enjoy being on the water, I used to own a sailboat and I plan to own one again. I enjoy learning and love the history, animal planet, natgeo channel. I enjoy most sports. Football, Baseball and Basketball are my favorites... like to watch the games on tv... but I won't let it rule my time...That is why they made a DVR.. I lived a long time in Southern California area, but grew up in Illinois farm country. Go Bears . I love most music and enjoy the places music can take you. Rock, Jazz, Country, Blues, to Phantom of the Opera. I like classic rock. Like the Beatles, Eagles, Santana, frank, Eric Clapton, Stevie Ray, etc. as well as the new stuff.. To many to name.. I can usually find something in all music that makes it incredible. "The love you give is equal to the love you get". John Lennon
I 'm currently writing a book. Maybe I will complete it someday?? I like to be creative, art, going to festivals,museums, movies, playing pool, going out to listen to bands, boating, etc. I should own a Starbucks. I ride my bike 3 times a week 15 miles each, and do weight training. When I can.
I would like to find someone who is true to themselves. Someone who will laugh at my stupid jokes and make me laugh with their stupid jokes.
They say the eyes are the window to the soul. I say laughter is the voice of the soul. And music is in the soul. Laugh ,Love and dance to your own music.
It seems like sometimes life can be filled with rain. You can set inside and wait for it to stop. Or go outside and Dance in the rain.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Hummmmm Let's see. whatever would work for both of us. A few ideas. Watching the sunset on the beach with a bottle of wine. Having a beer and playing a game of pool or mini golf. Coffee at a coffee shop. Starbucks..... Dinner on the beach. Doesn't matter what you are doing. Only matters if you are having fun with the other person. See who can sing the best song or tell the best joke while riding a Rollercoaster. Lol