A Friendship/Relationship is like a garden, it requires Two Gardeners. It has four seasons and in each seasons it requires maintenance, there will be times that one gardener will need to carry the load as the other will need to heal and regain strength but if the one that heals do not return the Love and Support after, how can the garden stay alive? Life is a process of learning, what we chose to learn will mold and shape our actions.
By choosing "Love and Support" we can insure a better quality of life. The Road Less Traveled is the One with the Greatest of Rewards.
I am an "INFP" (from the Myers and Briggs Personality Test) with a passion for "LOVE" and I am seeking Friends that are on the same path so that together we could share each other's Discoveries.
"INFPs are sensitive, caring, and compassionate, and are deeply concerned with the personal growth of themselves and others. Individualistic and nonjudgmental, INFPs believe that each person must find their own path. They enjoy spending time exploring their own ideas and values, and are gently encouraging to others to do the same. INFPs are creative and often artistic; they enjoy finding new outlets for self-expression."
One of the greatest example of an "INFP" is the old skin horse in the Classic Story of the Velveteen Rabbit. In the part where He shares to the Rabbit how one becomes Real:
"It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It
takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who
break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved
off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very
shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are
Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."
Being real is a very courageous journey and one that not too many people will take, but for Me it is what Saved my Life and Keeps me filled with Serenity. It is not an easy path within a world that is filled with abuse but it is one that I would never regret, even in hard times ((tender loving smiles))
I Love to Read and Write, Computers, Walking, Listening, Movies, Shopping!!! Books, Matters of the Heart, Cycling, Gaming, Cooking, Intimacy, and many more...
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Sitting on a Bench in the shade,Tidal Bore Park is a perfect spot to be able to share our interest, passions, the good and the bad because life is not always positive. A good Friend is there in bad times and who they are always encourages us to work towards the positive side of a bad situation. They also allow us to be not perfect and somehow can see that for the most parts those imperfection is what makes us all unique. Every child is born "Perfectly Unique". We can also walk along the Trail and end up in one of the Sidewalk Cafe/Restaurants ((loving smiles)), but it is all about getting to know each other. Also Love e-mails!! After a long hard day at work coming home to a wonderful email brings a certain Joy in the heart!