Let's get the cliches out of the way - I don't like talking about myself but I will do it anyway. I am smart, compassionate, independent, focused, and laid-back. I could probably throw out a few dozen other adjectives that have been used to describe me by one person or another but I'm sure it's things you've read a hundred times over. What you probably don't read often is that I am a therapist, with my doctorate in psychology. I love my job and can't imagine doing anything else. With that said, it is mentally and emotionally draining at times. So when I'm not working, I like to have fun and do things like hanging out with my friends or family, catch a movie, play mini golf, pool, bowling, watching a 49er game, or sometimes to hop in the car and drive around. I am a huge football fan, if you aren't a fan of the game then you can probably stop reading now. I like most kinds of movies, not crazy about horror movies though. I like mainly pop, R&B, Top 40 music but I like a little rock and country on occassion. Anything else you want to know just ask!
I'm looking for a mature guy who has his life together or at least an idea about where he wants his life to go and a plan on how he's is going to get there. I am a strong woman who is looking for a strong man. Simply put, I want an equal. I want someone who can and will stand up for himself without being a jerk or domineering. Being with someone who is confident and independent is important to me, I do not want man who is desperate or needy. I'm not interested in guys who smoke, have ex or current wives, or have kids. There is nothing wrong with most of those things, just hold no interest for me at this point in my life. Not crazy about tattoos either. Call me picky if you like, that's your opinion, but when it comes down to it I simply know what I want and won't settle for less than what I know I deserve. It really sucks that I even have to write this but if you're looking for a hook up, FWB, or just a sex-based relationship, please move on because you will never get that from me.
Please don't message me asking me to be your therapist, I'm looking for a relationship not a client.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I admit I'm the simple type who is perfectly happy with grabbing a drink or a simple dinner and a movie date but still open to just about anything else.