I enjoy being active and getting out to do things. I don’t watch a lot of tv and probably haven’t seen this or that movie if you ask about it. Cuddling on the couch and watching a movie, is still a good night because of the quality time spent with the person/people. Ive gone without owning a tv for periods of my life. I love going to concerts and most types of music. I am not musically inclined but I’m in awe of people who are. My music tastes are all over the place. Indie. Rock. Alternative. Classic rock. Punk. 90’s. Country.
Some of the sports I play/played are ice Hky, ultimate, soccer, other skating sports. I also enjoy many outdoor activities such as kayaking, climbing, winter sports, wake-boarding, camping, hiking, biking, slack-lines. I enjoy new adventures and creating fun new memories through experiences. Campfires, wineries, BBQs, concerts, sporting events, social events/festivals and quick get aways are all fun ways to spend a weekend. Many of my interests have come in and out of my life as time, location and other factors change. Eating healthy and maintaining a healthy life style is important to me.
I grew up west coast and still feel that the east coast is a completely different mind set. I wont be impressed by the things you have or a flashy car. I don’t want to see your dead fish or dead deer. I want to get to know who you are first and build a strong foundation foremost. I’m not looking for a quick hook up, not interested in open relationships, and don’t need a sugar daddy (I’m financially stable on my own thanks!). Would like to find someone I can be playful with, who enjoys bantering and sarcasm, is in good physical shape, likes to laugh, and who enjoys being affectionate and goofy.
My kids are a large part of my life. I enjoying watching them grow and try new things. We have a dog as well who thinks she’s the fun police around the house. I’m open to meeting people with or without kids of their own. They just need to understand the constraints of being a parent.
I enjoy a good conversation, especially if the other person is sincere, engaging and inquisitive. I like to figure out what makes people tick. I do not enjoy small talk as it often comes across as fake. I very much enjoy affection both giving and receiving. Being insecure in who you are or smothering me because of insecurities are not attractive.
At this point in life, I’m sure everyone has their own baggage and experiences of some sort. Finding the one to grow old with is more about how open minded you are and how well you can blend two lives together. Id like to truly get to know the person first and build a solid foundation and move on from there. POF has its share of the weird and crazy on here. After a few of these experiences myself, I am no longer of the mind set that meeting immediately is the best approach. Exchanging intriguing back and forth conversation for a little bit seems to really help weed out some of the crazies. I realize that being pen pals is no fun and dragging things out too long can get frustrating and kill the momentum. There is middle ground.
I wish you all the best in your search for happiness on here, whether we connect or not.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I don’t want to feel like I’m interviewing you. Conversation should be well balanced and flow easily. There should be some substance to your profile on here, if for nothing else but to give others somethings to ask you about.
If your profile is mostly empty or missing face shots I most likely won’t reply. There are too many fake accounts on here and if you truly need to hide from someone we might not be a good fit.