After being away from dating for some time it’s time to venture out hoping to meet an interesting person or people to make some great times with!! Rather than dating, I see it as a chance to meet new friends… share ideas and be creative with someone to find fun and exciting things to see and do wherever they may be! If something more develops with someone, then all the better, but along the way make new friends…. have a great time and try to get the most out of life. I’m open to new ideas, like to have fun, somewhat laid back, understanding, responsible, supportive, attentive and I try to appreciate and help others reach their dreams and goals. I have a pretty good sense of humor and try to make things fun… and can be very playful and affectionate with the right person. I tend to look at what makes a person... looks are given... what's inside that counts in the end....intelligence is sexy....
I suppose like most I've had the usual ups and downs…I try to appreciate the good …..make the best out of the bad… take things in stride and keep on the path. My son (19 now) lives with me at times, and while it’s been nice watching him develop into a strong productive young man, he has his own agenda now which leaves me more time to get back into the swing of things. Much of the past has been spent parenting, various projects, work and building for the future...And now....it seems that the future is just on the horizon. So, when I’m asked “what do you do for fun?”, I would have to answer with what I would like to do to have more fun. Having friends over, quiet fires on cold nights, seeing and doing things around town, finding great music and bands, week-end adventures, seeing more of the country…and the world... are all on the list! There's more... it's a lonnng list! I love being outside, gardening and taking long drives…love being on the water or in the mountains… and I like exploring in town, watching people and looking for tucked away gems of culture. I would love to develop more creative hobbies and learn ways to express through art or music.
II am working toward a more fit lifestyle which I'm anxious to continue and expand into more active...activities? I'm by no means perfect, and have made my share of mistakes, but have recently adopted a new outlook and look forward to a happier and healthier full life ahead!
I would like to mention too...that although I do smoke, I am working toward stopping. I know this is a touchy subject and I go to great lengths not to impose it on those who don't. I hope this wouldn't be too big of a deterrent.
There is much more to say....soooo If any of this seems appealing I would love to hear from you!!
Now for the disclaimer........ I don't do mass mailings, If I sent a message it's because I was truly interested and I try to focus on one who I think there is good potential. If you aren’t interested, please take a second and say “no thanks”, or “are you kidding”... When ya get no response, it's natural to wonder what happened or if your message was even read. I'm a bigger guy, and I know that isn't for everyone. In past I've spent a lot of time writing longer, thoughtful messages only to never hear back.... so If I send a shorter message please don’t take that as a lack of effort or interest, Looks are important for chemistry...on both sides, so if you are interested and I pass the pic test, please let me know...and the charm, humor and clever conversation will follow. Maybe even an autographed copy of my centerfold spread in tubby-luv big and tall underwear catalog !
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Go somewhere relaxed and quiet see how it goes......