Let's start with honesty, first and foremost. Not interested in anyone younger than 27 or older than 45. Married, available, or separated - move on. Not interested in being anyone's "other woman".
I am not looking for a ready-made family or anyone who already has children, regardless of custody. I've experienced this situation and do not wish a repeat encounter. Sorry guys, but an instant family isn't part of my plans. I also have zero interest in the "perennial" Peter Pan, the unemployed and commitment-phobic types, anyway. I won't be anyone's "sugar mama." I like men who go beyond the shirt/boardshorts dress code.
Music has great influence in my life. If it doesn't grab my attention or some part of my soul, I'm not going to enjoy it. Most of my collection includes Asian pop music and a few movie soundtracks. Music should always enage the soul.
Physically, I'm curvy, no matter what my weight is. While most women prefer designer or brandname items, I don't believe it's 100% necessary. It would be nice, but not crucial to my existence. I'm not the typical woman men believe I am, but there are some stereotype qualities. I love to cook and entertain. I enjoy crafts and time with my family (sometimes). I love to dress for myself and the guy I'm with. I do not like horror movies. I'm a prolific reader and will read just about anything.
Here's where the stereotype ends... I'm an avid movie buff, foreign movies for the most part. I like action movies, especially the martial arts variety. I enjoy the occassional videogame. Final Fantasy or some kind of fighting game like Soul Caliber, maybe a flight sim. I like videogames. I also enjoy a good game of cricket (darts) or pool. I can even throw a neat football spiral. I've also learned not to hide my intelligence, but there is a time and place for such actions.
Goals are something I've always put on hold, for family reasons. I'm hoping to get my business off the ground in the next two years. If you want to know more, send me a message.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Why don't we meet and talk about it? Wouldn't want either of us to be bored or tired from work. How does coffee sound? I know a place here in town or perhaps you know of one?