I hope someone will take the time to explain this to me.......I have chatted with few and at the very least, making a new friend if things don't match, then I get the following:
No idea why I am here
Have fear of meeting people
Really don't have the time
(and the list goes on)...So please tell me again why your here ?
If you cant make the time to see if there could be a spark then please don't contact me until that time when you can put forth the effort....
Now if you made it this far I hope you read on............Thank you
Alright after days of thinking what and how I wanted to fill this in I will say it took me several attempts and a few pages of paper to try and come up with something this is clever yet witty, charming yet original, thoughtful and yet sincere and to be honest I don't think I can come up with anything that has not already been said. So here is all I can come up with for now ( though I may find myself deleting and trying again later) ...
I see many of the same faces that were here about a year ago and I wonder what gives....I want to hold out for the hope that you can catch lightening in the bottle and surprise others that this does work........I have read about how guys come on here to play games and some are even married and still looking which doesn't shock me per say because yes ladies do the same......I know it may sound like I am starting out on a bad note but please bear with me for just a few paragraphs......
Most of us are at the age where we probably thought a few things: 1. I didn't think I would be single at this part of our lives...2. The fact that happily ever does exist and we all would like to find it......3.Tired of the games other stuff that people on here say on here....4. What do we need to do to find that happiness ?
Come on now I know that several had thought these things a few times but we are all here and looking.....I know that each and everyone have that perfect image in our head of what we want.....Not that this is a bad thing but people also have to remember that opposites do attract and yes they do work. So now that I have said my thoughts, which may or may not, peaked your interest let me tell you about me.
I have been divorced for over 15 years and put my kids through college with the last one being still in school. I have dated through this period but have come to realize that it really shouldn't be a job at this point. I don't need to know every little detail in your past and if I did then I would ask for you to send me are resume with references though that doesn't sound like a bad idea. Let's face it we all have baggage that we have collected through the years, some might be little carry on baggage and some may have giant crates. I guess we need to ask - did we learn from these mistakes- are we still hung upon our ex's and do we still carry bad will towards others? For myself life is way to short ...I look for the good while trying to eliminate the bad.....be kind to me and I will return the favor......Yes I still open doors and say please as well as thank you and will ask if I may call.......It's just polite guys......it's not that difficult.....
Finally if you are still reading.........my bills are paid.......I love sports (what guy doesn't) and yes huge Cubs fan....and I do talk a lot.....it takes two to have a conversation....Most of my kids have completed college with one left to go also if you are a jealous person then we probably wont be a match, I have females who have been friends who have touched my life in some way. Life really to short to have enemies.......So this is a small glance into my world....Please be advised that a picture will be coming I the next day or two....I got nothing to hide but I just want to make sure that it is alright with my employer............and if you have any questions just ask......
I DONT HAVE THE "MEET ME" FOR THIS SITE.........SO IF YOU WANT TO CHAT THEN PLEASE SEND A NOTE