(just to update everyone..)
1..i like more music and or movies and or activities than just whats here...
2..things change...i opened this profile in probably 2008 or 2009..and did so under pressure of friends reluctantly so keep that in mind..never thought i would still be here either...waaa..lol
3..i have been single a long time and not had much luck on this site...so kinda gave up on searching n writing to superficial women who say its all about personality till they see a pic...so if you got a wants to meet thing from me..means i am interested...just gotten soo used to being rejected or ignored i rarely will ever send a letter till i know theres some interest back to start..sorry..doesnt mean i am not interested..so give me a shot and you will see i am an open book and will write you chapters..lol..if u want to talk anyways..
4.. last but definatly not least...i am a daddy of 3 and they truly are my life...so need someone who understands parenting..and does not expect to be a part of their lives right away...i dont just let people into their lives...dont want to confuse them..
Hello, my name is Tony. I am a simple man.I'm very down to Earth. I have a really good sense of humor and enjoy making others smile, I can be a bit of a smart ass sometimes, but in a good way ;)I hope...I am very open, and honest, I dont like secrets. My family and friends are very important to me. I have three children, that are my life. I'm a great listener, and love being there for people when they need me.I love to cook, and play pool, disc golf, bowling, watch movies(in theatre or in home is fine with me...and just about any movie works for me) shoot darts, pretty much anything my kids want to do... i love music of many types.. and to sing...and no that does not make me sinatra..i am a huge cuddler...but not a big public displays of affection guy...dont mind a hug or a kiss here n there but i try to leave the groping and making out for non public eyes...(it happens though wont lie to you...just try to avoid that) also love to touch and be touched...cuddling on a couch watching a movie with me running my hands through your hair or maybe the other way with my head on your lap and you lightly scratching my back is a dream come true...but of course that is all well after we got to know each other definatly not a right away event...lol.. i love to give massages as well but that also is a in due time event would be nice to have one in return for a change though..yes i know that some these things are a little open and out there for someone that does not know me to read but i am not a secrets kind of guy and figure honesty is important and rather someone know now than to not know and dislike me for that later...of course a am a huge fan of sex but what guy isn't so nothing to really wave flags over....lol..i hope to find love for many of them activities and likes in due time...i enjoy grilling out some steaks often...weekly daily dont matter to me .. sitting under the stars having a beer by a fire and enjoying a little music and alot of company makes a wonderful night...i am pretty much game for any activities life is a playground and no day is promised to anyone so make the best of it.. I try to look at the good and positive side to any situation and am very empathetic...so try to keep those around me happy...smiles are contagious and i wanna keep them to epidemic porportions hehehehe.I spend alot of time with family and would like to find someone special to occupy my time and to share all of lifes possibilities with.... I have been single for quite a long time now and being the shy guy am not the greatest on approacing women so hope to find someone out there that can understand me and appreciate me as much as i do her... I am a strong believer that a good relationship is based off a great friendship...your "love should be your best friend and similarities are nice yes but to love and appreciate someone because of the things you have in common and to respect honor and cherish them for the differrences is where it is at...it is a big give and take...and yes i will do things i would rather not want to do just to put a smile on the one i am with...i just hope that the one i find can see that and return those favors... or at least show appreciation for them.... it is not all about me but more about us. i am not saying that you should give all to someone and hate the doing of it...but small things matter to some. The way i see it if you hate pizza and you knew that i loved it (mmmmm pizza) and you one day ordered godfathers for dinner...i would be smiling and happy and would see that it was all about me that day and love you for that...and in return if i hated the opera(not saying i do) and you loved it and i happen to notice your favorite (le mis, cats, whatever)was coming to town...i would surprise you with tickets and enjoy the night with you...regardless if it was my thing or not... hopefully there are alot of similarities to start off though...but that is in my eyes what makes a relationship work to you might be differrent...and that is what i am here to find out.. love laughter smiles and tears(hopefully more smiles than tears but it is life) good humor and a comfy cuddle buddy ...that is what i am after....i hope to find that woman that her and i just click.... a faithful and giving woman with a good heart like mine.. not a big fan of drama and not a violent man so prefer not to run into the bar fighting girlfriend either....lol.. I'm looking for a woman who is kind hearted, honest,loyal, and caring. If you're interested, just send me a message :) Can't wait to hear from you.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
that all depends and varies....to me there is no limits on what to do where to go...movie, bar, home, walk around some lakeride bikes on a trail, go to dinner....it really depends on what she would like to do....i am game for anything...so the question is what would u like to do....i dont usually plan out dates...spontaneous is better in my opinion...cause plans fail and then dissappointment sets in....rather spurt of the moment...this sounds like fun or hey guess what i seen...maybe we should swing over there... plans are good for certain types of a date like reservations at a certain resturante you been wanting to eat at...or if we are going to an event..play... football game....movie...but of course those would be planned a bit... well first dates to me is about seeing if there is that spark....is there any physical attraction...cause if you and i had the emotional and mental attraction and the physical was there than who knows where we will go in life...but first date it is all a leap towards seeing who each other is and how compatible we are...so planning something is not a must...we should have the common interests and just pick something...but i might surprise u with a planned out evening anyway....lets work on getting to that point before u worry about what to do then