First off, I can't go out with someone who isn't in shape. There are exceptions but I have already made one too many so I'd rather go out with someone who / let's put it this way if you don't look like you do in College we might have to forget it. Because I do. And probably no one after 40. I can work all day. Go run for 4 miles, go to a show drink and dance til 3oclock. I don't do this all the time but I can. And it usually involves people much younger than I.
Interested in a girl with class who takes care of herself. I take care of myself and I think I can pull off a fine dining and doing salsa without loosing my self respect. Hobbies are art related, filming,writing, photography even drawing and playing guitar. My goals are to own my own business. I am unique because I try a little bit of everything, truly I'm not just saying that I do have the most broad experiences of just about anyone I know. I go to concerts, Rock concerts but I will go to Ravinia to see something classical or old school. I eat just about anything. I like cultural things and surroundings that are unique and give off a feel. This is not unusual. If you don't understand that you are probably a suburban person. I am a designer so I am very affected by sights, sounds, smells.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
It depends, I've done Salsa Dancing on first date, I've done Jazz clubs and I've done small talk coffee. The truth is if there's something
you like about me it's better to go ahead and do a cool activity, if there's no connect just meeting for coffee isn't gonna work, but
sometimes the quick meet up is good and I'm fine with that too.