looking4the1in916: looking for my one and only
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Elk grove, California
35 year old Female, 5' 0" (152cm), Catholic
Caucasian, Sagittarius
looking4the1in916 is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic

taken 3-17-13

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 2 years
Pets No Pets  

About Me
I am just looking for a friend that can possibly turn into something more in the future. not looking to rush into something. but looking for a great guy who has his act together ages 30-37 years old. i have 3 children. i own my own photography business. love going to the movies, or going for a romantic walk. i am a romantic person and looking for the same. i am not into playing games or being played. if you'd like to get to know me send me a message.

SWF 31, single mom of 3. My kids are my life but I miss having that special someone in my life, I have enough love for my children and someone special. I hate drama!! Be straight forward with me, I am definitely NOT into games, players, liars or stupid men who think I am not smart enough to see thru their BS. I have had bad luck with men, they have all been liars, or say they want the same things as me but do not. I am a strong woman and I know what I want from a relationship and out of life. I eventually want to get married and have more children. but I know that you have to start somewhere first. talking, dating then into a relationship. so I am here trying to find some people who want what I want. I’m looking to settle down. the men I have been meeting have been losers and I’m soooo done with the bullsh*t high school games. I want to be in a relationship again. I miss going out to the movies and cuddling at home with my man. I am a very good woman and am a great girlfriend. but I have been hurt too many times and have been lied to and cheated on. and I deserve someone better than that. I deserve someone who will put as much energy into a relationship as I do
I am a very loving & caring , sweet & funny person. I am shy at first but then I warm up to you if you make me comfortable.
I am a BBW(cute & thick) if your not into that then thank you for reading and hope you find what your looking for if you are good, wont be a BBW forever but as of right now I am. so that's me
I like going to movies, hanging out, going on short vacations or long vacations, haven't done that in a while..lol, I can go to bars but I normally don’t just hang out, spending a quiet night at home, spending time with my family and friends. family is very important to me. I do have a bit of a potty mouth that I am trying to control it lol. I do not do drugs (NONE), i rarely drink, i am disease free and intend to stay that way.
I have my own goals in life and will be successful
i am not looking for a sexual relationship with someone ie. friends w/ benefits, i will not sleep with you on the first date so please don't waste my time. i do understand that sex comes with a relationship and that is perfectly fine with me but i am not looking for a fling. or one night stand.
I may sound a little like a **** but i really am not i am just sick of the bad men & losers, i want to be straight up with what i am looking for and what i expect. I’m tired of games and am tired of wasting my life with men who do not deserve a great gal like me!
I treat my man with respect and am very romantic, i like to do little things like surprise you with lunch etc.
I am a smart Woman and i want a smart Man.
i am attracted to the person not his appearance but obviously there has to be a physical attraction.
I'm a sweet girl with some old fashioned values (man takes care of woman, woman takes care of man.) I need someone special. A good fit would be someone successful, healthy, happy, and willing to commit. If I find you, I'll worship you.

I live i elk grove and prefer someone who is close to me. i am NOT into long distant relationships. Please be in the Sacramento Area
About YOU:

have a job/career
have your own car
have your own place (home/apartment etc)
must be romantic
want to have a serious relationship
must be between the ages of 30 and 37.
I am not interested in black men/Asian men or middle eastern men, nothing against you that's just not my preference. :-)
You must be mentally stable and financially stable, i am not a gold digger but i do NOT want to live pay check to pay check with someone. I work hard and expect you to as well.
You must be able to accept my faults as i will you and not try to change me. if i change it will be because of myself.
I want someone who wants me in their life but not to be their WHOLE life.
You must know how to treat a woman, treat me like a princess and i will treat you like a prince.
I want a man who has a job/career and makes decent money
I want a man who makes me feel special
I want a man who if he is busy on the weekend will take me with him just so he can be with me.
I want a man who if we were to get into a serious relationship would treat my children as his own, as would I if he has children.
I want a man that will bring me flowers for no reason
I want a man who enjoys going out on the weekends and some week nights
I want a man who can openly communicate and is willing to compromise
I want a man that I can connect with on more than a physical level
I want a man who understands that my children come first and always will
I want a man who is a handy man
I like it when a man texts me during the day just to tell me he's thinking of me. and calls me before he goes to bed to say good night even if I’m already asleep and he leaves a message i will get in the morning.
Looking for a strong, confident man, who has his life together. I want someone who likes to be in control, but can share the control with me as somethings in my life i like to be in control of but am willing to share the control.
I know that it seems like that i am asking for a lot but i do not think i am. i am asking for a MAN! not a little boy or a boy who THINKS he's a man. I am at the point in my life that i want to settle down with that special someone and begin a life together.

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