Sorry for the rant.... Tired of the games or hey what's up messages. So I'll tell you exactly what you need to succeed with me. Shouldn't be hard unless you just can't do what I like.
I want to meet someone who I can learn new things from. I want to explore life and try new things. I'm looking for someone who has a lot to offer--brains, honesty, humor, is outgoing, happy, open and non-judgmental. Being carefree and laughing is really important in a relationship. Straight out the gate making sexual comments get you NOWHERE.
I'm interested in anything really. I'm such an open book. I love skydiving, kayaking and drinking, paddle boarding, zip lining, raves/edm (without the drugs unfortunately), amusement parks, concerts, comedy shows, boating, going to WV and staying on the river to fish, visiting wineries, traveling and exploring anywhere new, spontaneous adventures, going to local beer or food festivities, trips to the beach, hiking, going to the gym... I love being active. It's extremely important for the person I'm spending time with to be active, work out and be moderately healthy with eating. It makes my life easier because I have someone who shares the habits with me.
First dates like bowling, Dave and Busters, Top Golf, shooting or archery or once warm something outside like hiking, kayaking or exploring a new place are the best! I love the Nationals, so during baseball season, I love getting the nose bleed section seats that are dirt cheap and day drinking. I want someone who wants to get out and experience life. I'm in my 30s now, and there's much left to do! I do enjoy down time, so it doesn't always have to be an adventure, but I won't complain if life is always an adventure with you. That's what keeps me excited about each day that comes and keeps my soul happy.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Do yourself a favor and open up car doors and building doors. Help take off my jacket when we are sitting down in a restaurant. Show interest, respect and genuinity. You get more flies with honey than vinegar. You want a serious, mutually respectful and loving relationship, put in effort from day one. Chivalry goes a long way with me. In return, I'll respect, care and love you. I've been through my fair share of unfortunate relationships, and Ive learned what is most pleasant to be around. I know what I desire. If you are lazy in dating, if your idea of effort is skipping days of communication, if you don't like touching and holding and cuddling (yes, even in public...rest your hand on my thigh while sitting at the bar....act like you want to be there with me and you are proud of being with me), if you don't appreciate the effort I put in and reciprocate everything I'm willing to do, PLEASE go back to your search results and keeping browsing. Don't waste my time.