Mistake on age, should say 45 not 40.
If I don’t reply I apologise, but I see from the start that we wouldn’t work.
I'm a genuine, sensual, loyal, fun and drama free woman who gives a lot to my relationship, so it needs to be worthy. I want to find my equal, a man of integrity, a loyal and affectionate man. My companion, friend, lover and protector. If you’re looking to date but nothing serious, or not looking for a commitment, please give me a miss.
I ask only for what I want to give.
For those into sending abusive messages I repeat, I ask only for what I want to give.
I'm fiercely loyal and will have your back always, and I want that from my man too. Even when you're wrong. Actually, even more when you're wrong - that's when you'll need me the most. That kind of love where I'm your soft place to fall and you're mine. You'll always feel loved and supported with me.
I'm no party girl, game player or manipulator - I left high school a long time ago. I do however love to laugh. A lot. I'm no diva but like being treated like a lady. I'm comfortable under the stars and in 5. Many layers and a good tale are behind the glasses, I hope to find the one who will care for and appreciate all I have to offer. You'll be adored in return.
You don't need to be action model man, but if you are fat it tells me more about you than you need to say. Lazy doesn't work for me. Physically or emotionally.
Im pretty active and I like to look nice for myself and for my man. It's not about looking like a supermodel and I'm not saying I do, it's about my man knowing I care enough to make an effort, and it'd be nice to have that reciprocated. If you're a couch potato we won't work, but hey I can do the odd lazy day here and there.
Love my heels, a little glam on occasion, and am also comfortable walking barefoot with the earth under my feet. Adapt with ease to any situation and any company.
Need the warmth, beach & yoga like I need air.... I'm no stereotypical hippy type Yogi though.
I prefer you make first contact, so I feel you're genuinely interested in me.
Please be a real man.
Be a man of your word. It defines you.
Be able to communicate like a grown up.
If you have ever ghosted someone please do not contact me. If you don’t know what that is - google.
If you’re all talk no action, go BS someone else.
If you're a misogonyst, or sarcasm is your thing please give me a miss. I want to feel supported, admired and loved, as I will make you feel, not constantly criticised or teased. Having said that I'm a great banter partner - there's a large chasm between banter and sarcasm, don't be mistaken.
You will have the most devoted, loving and supportive woman by your side if you treat me well. Family is what’s it’s all about - everything else is secondary. I want the man I’m going to share the rest of the road with, my next relationship to be my last. If you’re on a different page give me a miss.
If you live in a share house we just won't work. Logistics.
If you’re “separated” please don’t contact me.
If you have photos of your kids, or someone else’s, on this site, we are worlds apart and please don’t contact me.
If you have photos of your dog on your bed, and worse, with it’s tongue down your throat - that mouth is never coming near me. Hygiene please!
On the hygiene thing - if you have dreadlocks keep looking...
If you’re in your 20s, thanks but I’m not interested in men young enough to be my son.in. In your 30s? Still too young, go get a girl- you’re not ready for me. But you probably haven’t read this far anyway.
If you have ‘69’ or similar in your username please keep going. .
If you can’t spell your name, your suburb or your profession correctly, we are worlds apart and wouldn’t work - intellectual compatability really is important - when we are 90 years old I want to still be laughing with you and sharing stimulating conversations.
If you classify yourself as the class clown type, thanks but no thanks.
If you speak in the third person, want a partner in crime, have tattoos on your face, or own a Harley, I’m not your girl.
If you’re from Gympie or Caloundra or Nambour please give me a miss. If you don’t know why that’s fine, you don’t need to.
If you’re too lazy to write more than “hey” in your first message I’m not going to spend energy rteplying
If you’ve written “just ask” on your profile you must think your. appearance alone is good enough to catch me, and you also expect me to make all the effort from the beginning- arrogance and laziness are the least effective qualities to snare this woman
Please read the above sentences again, please understand them. It’s not rocket science.
Not interested in your *#ck pics, nor am I going to give you phone sex or pics of me naked - amazing how many guys out there think it’s reasonable to expect that on the first hello call and after. If that’s your thing find someone else, who has no self respect. I don’t want to talk about sex with you if we havent even met, and no, you can’t come to my house after one coffee date. Dating 101. I’m looking to build a life with the man I’m to share the rest of the road with. Sex gets better and better as time goes on, plenty of time, no need to try to prove your manhood the first time we talk
I'm not the type to initiate contact here. I'm a bit old school, I like my man to be the man..
I’m open to a change in geography for the right relationship. But please nowhere cold, I’ve done my time there.
If this resonates with you, drop me a line and lets chat.
I'm really not that demanding, all of the above is pretty simple and logical stuff...just what any woman with self respect would want.
If you’ve sent me a ton of messages and I haven’t replied, check because you may have blocked me. I don’t get why people block me when they’ve messaged me and I haven’t had time to reply..