I'm so over this I don't want to date anyone. I want to skip all the awkward stuff and just move into that space when you know I am joking and not think I am crazy. I'm kind of a hopeless romantic in a way but not into the fancy wine and dine thing. I'm more into if I say I like something and I said it like 6 months ago you have been looking for it to give me to show you care. I don't want a guy that would give me something simple like a diamond necklace if I said I always wanted a Care Bear movie collection of the original movies that's something that would tug at my heart strings and I'm left feeling a certain way. I don't have dreams of being fancy and having a big social group or being a social butterfly I lean more towards being a loaner.
I would like to say all the right things and find my match but I always seem to say the wrong thing. I rather be myself than someone fake. I'm like a open book once I get to know someone I just have to warm up to them. I'm not perfect an no one is. I admit to my mistakes when I notice them and apologize. I'm never going to be perfect I am just going to be me.
I have a huge heart people tell me considering what I do for work. I work with people that have all kinds of disabilities,behavioral problems,drug and alcohol problems,teaching kids with and without disabilities,sub teaching,helping old people,homeless, mentally ill. I probably do other stuff I just can’t remember at the moment. So, all day I am getting yelled at or I have someone trying to hit me which is never fun. I know it sounds lame but I love my job even though I get injured and scared sometimes. I'm a big supporter of disability rights to a certain degree within logic.
I'm not a health freak and far from it but I can be a picky eater. I'm a pescatarian but more on the vegetarian side. I don't eat fish but that's the best category for me. I know you're probably thinking why is she talking about this. Surprisingly there are a lot of place I won't eat at and people like to go out to dinner.I just like to stick basic All American food, Mexican or basic sushi. Just a tip if you ask me out to dinner.
In my free time I like to explore new places and spend time in nature. When I can find a partner I like to play tennis or golf. I like hiking and going on long walks. Someday I would like to get a dog when I have more time to spend with it. I enjoy spend time in my garden taking care of my plants just relaxing. I love to be creative it's a passion I have had since I was young. I'm really into self expression but not a fan of tattoos. I love technology and I even have a degree in the field.
I'm a very traditional person in many ways but I have modern ways as well. Some of my views are very conservative and others are liberal. I'm open minded to a point. I’m Catholic traditional but leaning towards Evangelic Christianity these days. I don’t like going to church on Sunday’s but I do go during the week sometimes.
When I think to myself why am I on here? I'm looking to meet Mr. Right not Mr. Right Now. I like the strong silent type. I'm not looking for perfect just perfect for me.
I love to learn new and interesting things so I like to attend classes and seminars often in my free time. I tend to work a lot at times. I work for quite a few companies doing things that might be related of things that have nothing to do with the other. I like to plan for the future so I always have backup jobs encase of an emergency. I try to get a new a new skill every year to be as employable as possible.
I’m seeking a nice man with old fashioned values and knows a man’s place and how a man should act. Not looking for someone fake and doesn’t know what it means to be a man. A real man is loyal, honest, trust worthy, can have a conversation without coarse language. A real man has high moral standards and leads by example. A man has compassion for others. A man should be a chivalrous gentleman that only says kind words expecting nothing in return.
I'm very independent and I don't need a man but it would be nice to have someone to hangout with. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me I can take care of myself. I would like someone to take care of me if I am sick and keep me company. I'm 31years old and I don't think I have baby fever I found a cure for that I became a preschool teacher in my free time so I can hangout with kids whenever. I like to joke around often people don't always get that I am joking and become overdramatic. I don't like to be in the dark ever I like to keep all lights on most of the day.
I have a fish tank with a few fish and snails with a few plants as well. I like to explore new areas in my free time, Sometimes I have random vacations and find a place I would like to explore. I don't like planes but open to almost every other form of transportation. I rather be friends and form a bond then see where things go,
I’m looking for a man for the following reasons:
1.To kill bug that scare me
2.To tell me I am pretty
3.So, I can get a dog
4.Someone to workout with
5.Someone to call at 3am to talk to.
6.Someone I can wear my funny pajamas with
7.I need someone tall so when the lights go out I don’t have to sit in the dark
8.Someone to change the battery in the fire detector so I don’t have to wait forever and hear that noise.
9.Someone to hang pictures evenly
10.Someone to take the trash out because the animals scare me
11.Someone to scare the animals away in the morning
12.Someone to wake me up so I won’t be late
13.Someone o get rid of the bug that scare me in my garden
14.Someone to help me move
15.Someone to keep me calm when I am scared
16.Someone to listen to me complain.
17.Someone to fix things I don’t know how to.
18.Someone to take care of me when I am sick
19.Someone to give me a hug when I need one
20.I want someone to talk for me when I don’t want to
21.Someone to explore with me
22.Someone I can turn to before the wind blows so I don’t get watery eyes
23.Someone to buy things in stores I don’t want to
24.Someone to protect me when I am scared
25.To always have someone there for me.
Just a side note I'm not interested in guys in prison/jail.
Telling me I am a dumb **** for not liking you won't make me like you.
I can speak a few languages but I would like you to speak clear English I can understand I don't want to have to look stuff up in the urban dictionary. Sometimes my hair sticks up like I just woke up. I'm not into trying to be sexy I'm more into trying to stay awake. I'm kind of funny/offensive with a heart of gold
I was looking at my profile and read my RELATIONSHIP NEEDS ASSESSMENT and I am actually looking for what it says.
So, I am going to be blunt with what I want
Bottom line: you nee
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Meet and talk if we click go on a nice walk in the park talking and maybe a ice cream cone.
In the top section if the first thing I say is I don't want to date anyone and I say "Hello" why do guys think that means I want to date them? I messaged a guy and said Hello, because I wanted him to respond and ask him for advice on disabled dating for work. I thought he was disabled and wanted to ask for advice he thought I wanted to date him. Why do guys think so much of themselves. If I wanted to date someone they would know it.