I crave mental stimulation! I get bored easily and I know I’m that much of a deep thinker to where the average guy would become stumped or would deflect because he wouldn’t be able to hang on and hold the conversation with me. I’m super happy about the woman I have become because I’m literally that confident in myself that I don’t need a bunch of guys on me, I’m just focused on THE one whom is designed to fit well with me. There is someone for everyone, but everyone isn’t for someone! It’s not an automatic that I’ll converse with a guy on here just because he hits me up. I need some substance to go off of! It takes a special kind of man to be with a woman like myself and I don’t hand out applications to every guy and in hopes he’ll just be good for the job. I know exactly what I’m looking for and what a guy thinks and carries himself is ONE signal to me. I’m not like most girls who guys think they have the generic woman’s mind all figured out. Most things guys convey to a woman, doesn’t impress me and a guy will get a headache trying to figure me out in hopes I’ll like it. Lol. Anyway, with that stated...There is a guy on here “Walkwithapurpose” that has caught my attention. I’m digging what I’ve seen so far as to what he typed in his bio. Kind of nice, but I’m still that chill to where my curiosity about a man doesn’t over power me thinking with my brain than emotions. I haven’t seen that he has seen my profile, but I know anything possibly worth having, isn’t easy! (Oh and I answered the conversation starters for you others that may need help with what to converse about. Lol. Number 2 is very important to me though...I don’t condone people who don’t care enough about themselves to think about keeping themselves healthy and safe. If you don’t even care about yourself, why would it be smart to think you could ever care about me?????)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
1) Are you too big of a baby to get hit with a paintball...bare skin?! Lol.
2) How much knowledge do you have about understanding your body and STDs/STIs? My general is it doesn’t have one look or symptoms. That alone, even the slightest hand shakes are scary to me.
No judgement, don’t be afraid to BE YOURSELF! People complain about not being accepted for who they are. Yet, they put on a front so girls will like them...Doesn’t make sense and a true set up for failure!