FIRST: I’M BLACK AMERICAN...NOT “BLACK” AS IN DOMINICAN AND/OR ANYTHING FOREIGN!!!! Lol. You guys are killing me asking about my nationality! Lol. Smh
Soooooo, basically I want a dude who has money to buy me EVERYTHING and I do NOTHING for him....That’s it!
Ah, yes, I have a sense of humor! Lol.
So the real me...My name is Jessica and I’m from California. (“How did you get over to Va?” I’m familiar with that question too well. Lol. Answer: Army brat!) I’m a college grad from Norfolk State University. I mostly work, but when I’m not...GYM, GYM, GYM! I used to love doing cardio, running 5 miles, everyday, but now I’m making weight lifting a lifestyle. Literally like my playground! Since I’m already trying to be honest...When it comes to a relationship, I’m not thinking about it. I think it’ll work best if I don’t “try”! Might scare some guys, but I would rather be upfront than mislead. I’m all about free will! I do have it figured out to just be myself though. If a guy likes me, the real me, we are on to something. If not, I got that one out the way so the one who truly likes me will surface. I’m not supposed to appeal to every guy, just that special one and I could meet him anywhere and anytime. Another honesty is I’m not a religious person, but I believe in God. I honestly don’t know the Bible from front to back, but I do have a basic understanding of how God wants his angels on Earth to live their lives and how to treat each other. I feel like “The Higher Being” will let me know when I’ve come with the man designed just for me. In the meantime, I'm just trying to take advantage of everyday I wake up and make this one life I have meaningful! I know there may be some people who don’t believe in taking this app seriously, but I think I’m optimistic to not think that all guys are the same. Also, have in my mind that great things can be found in weird places...Maybe its possible I would make a nonbeliever a believer!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
1) Did you really read my novel in my “About Me”? Lol
2) Are you too big of a baby to get hit with a paintball...bare skin?! Lol.
3) How much knowledge do you have about understanding your body and STDs/STIs? My general is it doesn’t have one look or symptoms. That alone, even the slightest hand shakes are scary to me.
No judgement, don’t be afraid to BE YOURSELF! People complain about not being accepted for who they are. Yet, they put on a front so girls will like them...Doesn’t make sense and a true set up for failure!