I am a 49 year old beautiful black woman in search of an awesome educated/employed male. I am employed by the state of New Jersey in the social work field. Been on my job for 11 years. I love any and all outdoor activities. I played basketball in both high school and college and I still consider myself to be an athlete. I enjoy traveling and attending concerts and sporting events. Candlelight dinners and weekend getaways are a MUST! A Just because I was thinking of you phone call or flowers work well also. The greatest gift I can give my mate is the confidence in knowing unequivocally that he is loved! He is cared for and he has a safe place/sanctuary to retreat to.