sillybut: Laugh at yourself, be goofy
Non-Smoker with Average body type
N. california, California
49 year old Female, 5' 11" (180cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Capricorn
sillybut is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
Class Clown


I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Red Eye Color Grey
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Cat & Dog Second Language Other

About Me
I am not sure if this site will find me my true love...but hey, maybe I can make some good friends in the process. No, I don't mind chatting but eventually we are going to have to stop texting....don't you think?

I love to laugh. Dance in my kitchen (neighbors seem to get a kick out of it), sing out the car window as loud as I can, trying to encourage someone to join in on my foolishness. I have my moments of being shy and moments of being terribly silly. I thinks its all a matter of how comfortable I am and the company I keep. Family and friends play a big part in my life and I value them greatly.

Always cherish laughter, smile at my neighbor, stick my tongue out at a random kid, stop to feel the wind on my face, or complement a stranger. I make a point to try a new food once a month. I had a honey kiss the other day that looked like it came from another planet. I like a good hug. I am a busy person too, but somehow, for me, I make sure to stop and see what's in front of me. Life is more fulfilling that way. I regret missing moments I can't get back.

So many gentlemen out there that do so many extraordinary things. Where do you find the time? Sky diving, water skiing, snow boarding, car racing, pump weights........ I'm tired just writing all those down and wonder if I could even keep up with them.

Comfortable with myself, though there is always room to improve. Don't hold onto the negative but look forward with optimism. Life is too short to waist time and energy on things that cant be changed or seem to always bring you down. I like my life, enjoying what I have accomplished so far and am looking for someone to make it even better. :)

I've been told it a good thing to express what I'm looking here goes. I'm looking for someone who likes who they are and are willing to share themselves with me. There is a huge difference between confidence and arrogance. I'm not a real fan of judgmental people or jealousy. I'm a one man woman and the man I'm with would be confidant in knowing who HIS woman comes home to. One special man is all I need ??. I admire patience. I am an independent woman, so finding a gallant man (not the easiest to find) would be wonderful and truly make me feel special. Ok, here's some honesty...I am not looking for perfection. I don't care what you do for a living but loving what you do is very important. I will put something out there though. If you haven't noticed already, Im a pretty tall woman, especially in heals. I'm not sure why 5'5" men are attracted to that but it would be nice to find someone my height or taller. Holding hands or slow dancing would be far less awkward.

Did you read the whole thing? I'm impressed

Big smile to all that take a peek
May you find that special someone who makes your heart race and nothing feels real till you've shared your day.

May she kiss you for no reason other than she can.

May you age gracefully together, sitting on your porch, ready to hose stray children off your lawn and threaten to hide each others teeth. ??

P.s. if you don't hear from me, please don't send mean comments or take it personal.

all my pictures are recent.

((Blowing kiss))

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
walks are nice, sitting and listening to classic rock or the blues. I probably would not suggest a movie because getting to know you is the whole idea. I would rather hear what you have to say.

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