spiffytiffy: I ain't a playa, I just crush a lot
Non-Smoker with Average body type
El cajon, California
39 year old Female, 5' 8" (173cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Cancer
spiffytiffy is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Project Manager

I know, I know, I have nice melons. They're on sale at the 99cent store!

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Me
I'm a sucker for a guy in a flannel!

********I see the same faces here when I am in and out of a relationship and I initially think ugh, I definitely don't want to message that guy...he's been on here FOOORRREEEEVVERRR he must have issues!! But then I think... Ugh!! I have been on here forever too!! And I am awesome!!! ;) ISSUE-LESS!! just kidding! We all carry some sort of baggage and we are all just trying to find that lil bell boy or girl that will carry it with a smile!!

I just started dating again after taking a year break, but now I'm ready to meet someone that makes my heart pump blood into my ventricles and aorta!

I definitely want someone I can feel chemistry with and just have a blast in any situation and that has the same sarcastic quick witted humor I do; that can dish it and take it!

Someone who is affectionate.. who loves attention..and enjoys me for everything I am just the way I am. And I am not perfect so there will be some flaws that will need your grace :)

All in all, happy and cute is what I am seeking wrapped in a bow of honesty and faithfulness :)

I am not looking for a fling or one night stand, never have. My time is valuable because i have a daughter and a lil son, so I dont like to waste time on people that i dont think there is a connection.

Things I enjoy...

Running, working out, COFFEE/Happy Juice, staying up late/smokin crack JK!, watching movies/watching previews (if its a week night I usually fall asleep after 10 minutes), dancing, busting balls/bantering, rough housing/kicking ass, sleeping, Motocross tracks (I love watching and would like to learn how to ride a dirt bike), Target/Happiest place on earth, Key lime pie/lil piece of heaven, I love cooking for people when I have time, country music, all types of music except Thrash Metal, SOO much more...I am an open book ask me anything!! (within reason and with respect)


You guys are posting WAAAY too many seflies. I thought teenie boppers were bad, but OMG I see so many Blue Steel expressions on here. One or two are okay, but don't you have friends? Family? I understand guys don't take pics much, but don't you have a sis or mom, cousin, or someone that takes pics when you guys go out together?

Stop cropping your ex gf or the hoochies you bought in Thailand out of your pics. Don't use those ones. We aren't dumb.

If you're new to San Diego, I'm not interested. San Diego women are hot... So snack on some for at least a year or during a bomb summer and when you're ready for a fulfilling meal then contact me around Thanksgiving. If I I was a dude, that's what I'd do! Just sayin...

Girls HATE the shirtless six pack headless pics. Shirtless is okay if you are at the beach or wherever, but definitely not in the bathroom.

If you are 40 and your age range is 18-25, you are a perv.

If you are 30 something and the longest relationship you had was less than a year, you're too risky.

ALSO- when sending me a message, don't call me: honey, sweetheart, don't use beautiful as a noun (I welcome using it as an adjective), sexy, sweetie, or any other term that is just sleezy and insincere.

Don't copy and paste the same generic message to us. It's not being efficient, it's being lazy and insincere. Dating sucks (i know) but if you're interested in the girl, say why?! What did you like about their profile?

Lay off the alcohol! You guys are aging so quickly off that shiz. Especially in the age group that I am forced to date because I am getting older too. Which brings me to another "Really?", why in the heck are you posting pics from high school or in your military hay days? Is that the person you want us to imagine while having sex with you because the you now didn't take care of yourself? You think girls lie about what they look like? Dudes do the same shiz. It sucks lemons!

Also, whatever m-fer reported my goofy pic and had it removed because I didn't respond, did you ever think that maybe girls can sometimes see crazy in just a picture and don't want to explore your world?

Lastly, fill out your profile! It is a sucky part of online dating but if you're not willing to invest a short amount of time (once) to give us a little about you, than how do you expect us to think you're willing to put the energy in a relationship? Have a couple beers (just a relaxed buzz) and open up your soul! Lol You can copy and paste it to the other dating sites that you have!! Badda bing Badda boom!

Hope everyone finds what they are looking for and treating everyone nicely :) Lets hold hands...Kumbaya! ;)


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On a serious note: I'm not interested in the newly separated or newly divorced. Nor am I wanting be someone's time killer while you're waiting for the love of your life to come around again.

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