I'm a very private and guarded person. I'm old-fashioned in a sense when it comes to dating. A True Southern Girl minus the southern accent. I still believe in courtship and chivalry.
Out side of my Aviation slave job, I am a writer, a poet, and soon to be published Author of two amazing best sellers. Without a doubt, I know I am the next female version of Tyler Perry. Remember the face and stay tuned...
I love having fun, trying new things (that are safe). Not a fan of huge crowds. I like more of an intimate setting. Love card games (spades and tonk). You must be a good spade player to be my partner. RENIGGING is unacceptable! LOL! I enjoy cookouts, professional fight parties with family and friends, tailgating (ATL Falcons...Rise Up!!!), hiking, sightseeing, museums, skating, bowling, and weekend getaways.
I'm a HUGE fan of SIMPLICITY. If I was the richest woman in the world, I would still live a simple lifestyle. I'm about to journey into a vegan lifestyle. Wish me well with that!
I'm attracted to:
* Straight men.
* Blacque men.
* Intelligent men.
* Men who can articulate without every other word being profane.
* Men with book smarts and street smarts.
* Men who are confident in themselves but not conceited.
* Men who are sensitive to a woman's needs.
* Men who exudes gentlemen qualities.
* Big feet (wink) jk
*Guys who don't profess on their profile to be doctors, lawyers, engineers, investment bankers, etc., with a HIGH SCHOOL diploma.
*Guys with up close pics of themselves and not of material possessions, unless they're in the pic...Huge turnoff for me!
I've always been told that I have a great sense of humor, funny as hell and should be getting paid for my comedic humor...always smiling and laughing.
However, I am a "no non-sense" type of girl with a ZERO tolerance for B.S. I know what I want and, therfore, I refuse to settle for anything less.
I'm not one who's caught up in materialisms, statuses and titles. I absolutely loathe BRAGGERS, ATTENTION WHORES, and LIARS.
I'm 48 and I am too old to be referring to a guy as my "boyfriend". I am NOT on this site by means of desperation to find a man. I view this as just another means of meeting a guy that could potentionally become my best friend and my HUSBAND. Someone who's serious about commitment. So with that being said, if your profile states that your intent is "CASUAL DATING/NO COMMITMENT" or "LOOKING TO DATE BUT NOTHING SERIOUS", do not expect a reply from me. I prefer you bypass me because clearly we aren't on the same path. AND JUST BECAUSE I VIEWED YOUR PROFILE DOESN'T MEAN I HAVE TO LEAVE YOU A MESSAGE. I can't believe the attitudes I get because of it. SMGDH!!
I'm not easily impressed. You want to impress me... drown a fish. Otherwise, relax and just be yourself. (((SMILE)))
I'm a woman who doesn't ask for much...just to be loved unconditionally, respected, and adored by a man who proves his love with his actions.
That's pretty much me in a nutshell. Simple... Carefree... Family Oriented... Freespirited... Respectful of self, others, nature and life.
I don't just give my number for the asking! There has to be mutual chemistry and I think by conversing through THIS forum first, we will know if we're vibing enough to exchange numbers. However, if I bless you with my number and you use it to text me WHOLE conversations, don't expect a response from me.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's take a long walk around the park after dark
Find a spot for us to spark
Conversation, verbal elation, stimulation
Share our situations, temptations, education, relaxations
Elevations, maybe we can talk about Revelation 3:17
Or maybe we can see a movie
Or maybe we can see a play on Saturday
Or maybe we can roll a tree and feel the breeze and listen to a symphony
Or maybe chill and just be, or maybe we can save the nation
Maybe we can take a cruise and listen to the Roots or maybe eat some passion fruit
Or maybe cry to the blues
Or maybe we could just be silent